2007-01-25 18:02:54 · 9 answers · asked by tony 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
This is a very good question, as there is much to consider with both....I personally say, marry the one you love.
2007-01-25 18:24:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry the one who loves you if you have to make that choice. It is best when you love each other, but if not, the one who loves you, because if you ever get ill or when the whole world seems against you, it is wise to be with someone who loves you.
2007-01-26 02:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its very important to love a person whom you are going to marry,when smbd loves you,of course its good...but if you dont have the same feelings,you will hurt that person, even without wishing to do it.Cause when we love smbd we always wait for the same feelings from the other side.Now I have such situation that I cant be with the person whom I love deeply,but there is another guy who loves me and asks to marry him,but I told him that I cant marry him cause dont love him/And I think I did right.
2007-01-26 02:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Solnishko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is an excellent question! I can see the merits in both. However, I think I would be more inclined to marry the one who loves me. If I were to marry someone who didn't love me, I'd be miserable. Having the love of my partner is very important to me, and I feel that it actually contributes to my love of them. When you truly love someone and they are capable of loving in return, how can that display of love not be returned to you? I know I am capable of loving another, but what if the person I have chosen to marry, simply because I love her/him, is unable to love in return? See the dilemma? Interesting...very interesting!
2007-01-26 02:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rather marry the one i love than the one who loves me. because what if i marry the one who loves me and then meet the one i love later... i don't belive in divorce...
2007-01-26 02:14:33 · answer #5 · answered by CinsTaylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The one that you love and loves you back
2007-01-26 09:27:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry the one who loves you. Sounds selfish but its for your own good. its not easy to be hurt.
2007-01-26 03:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting question. Of course it would be best if the feeling was mutual. Ask yourself this, are you more of a "taker" or a "giver" ? Is the one your going to choose more of a "taker" or a "giver" ? Get the answers to those questions, and you will have the answer to the big question.
2007-01-26 02:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Count Acumen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't marry at all. It stripes you off your freedom and peacefulness... ...
2007-01-26 03:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Daffodil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋