Why does my boyfriend joke around about wanting me to be with another girl and watching?
2007-01-25 17:48:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, I think every man I have ever known has wanted this. But I do have to say that even when they get it in my experience they are not satisfied. There end s up being jealousy all around. And my personal experience is that the guy tends to bethe one to get more jealous. So I do not recommend it unless you REALLY want to and you understand that no matter what emotions will be involved..
2007-01-25 18:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by Amy L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For some reason, men seem to find this extremely attractive. You're boyfriend may be playfully joking, or it may be his way of hinting that he really would like to see you and another girl together, but doesn't want to sound too serious about it. Most (straight) women are bewildered by this because they do not feel the same way about watching two men have sex.
2007-01-26 02:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by dresdendarling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a family member who has a brothel of females and at first it is just him and the girl. Then somehow someway he talks them into adding a girl to the party. Then two girls, then three....He's never had any rejection either...shocking but true. Your man is testing you. He wants to see if you are down for whatever you throw at him...like loyalty. Just remember fantasies are just that...something to think about not do. Laugh it off cause you might regret it later if you don't. Do you know how many men talk their girlfriends into this only to end up with the new girl instead...not worth it!
2007-01-26 02:15:26 · answer #3 · answered by aprildin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's NOT joking, HELLOOOO!!!! He may say that, but he is SERIOUS. So tell him you want to see HIM with another man! THAT would be funny to say to him! I'd love to see his face! This guy is a PERVERT. Do yourself a BIG favor - GO find a hot girl and have sex with her WITHOUT HIM AROUND! That's right - DON'T INVITE HIM! Believe me - it will B L O W your mind better than HE ever could and you will enjoy it more if he isn't there.
2007-01-26 03:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not joking. It's something he'd really like to watch or at least get the details. Most guys (not all) get off on girl on girl action. If it's something you're interested in then by all means satisfy both yours and his curiousity.....BUT if you don't want to, don't do it. Be who YOU want to be. Not what someone wants to make you.
2007-01-26 02:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by just jenn 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This way the two girls do most of the work and he just sits back, like renting porno without having to pay for it. He's not joking
2007-01-26 02:07:23 · answer #6 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's testing the waters to see if you're open to the idea.
Tell him that you'll do another girl and let him watch - IF he reciprocates and lets you watch HIM with another guy. Fair's fair.
2007-01-26 02:00:56 · answer #7 · answered by Angelpaws 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why? Because he wants you to.
If you don't want to be with another girl then tell him to go find a guy coz you want to watch.
2007-01-26 08:57:34 · answer #8 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not joking, hon. He just makes it SOUND like a joke, so that if you get mad, he can say, "oh. well gee I was ONLY joking."
If you go for it, he won't be laughing. He'll be loving it.
2007-01-26 02:43:49 · answer #9 · answered by Alias400 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do it sweety!!he is not joking!allthought he might love to see u doing such a thing he is pathetic!!!
2007-01-26 03:32:28 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Santa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋