my friend has a crush on a gay. what should i do. firstly, im not sure if hes gay ,secondly, my friend is 14 and hes about 20! and thirdly , he is chinese and she is an indian. help !!! she has totaly fallen for him! HELP!
2007-01-25 17:14:20 · 6 answers · asked by wobwobwob 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Race should not be a concern...sad that you felt it important to bring that up. I am not sure where you live but in the US the age difference is illegal and you should warn her if she really likes him she should not try and lure him into getting into trouble. Lastly, it's not your business regarding his sexuality...that's his...The main point here is she is too young and if you are really that concerned I tell her parents.
2007-01-25 17:21:58 · answer #1 · answered by aprildin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, big age difference for such a young girl, and in alot (if not all) that is illegal.
Now if you do not know he's gay, why are you claiming he is? Is he open? Have you asked him? Is he really into a 14 year old girl? If he is gay what are you worried about, he has no interest in girls.
Lastly I'm not sure if you think there is something wrong with interracial relationships but it sounds like you do. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that, and actually the history of human evolution is comprised of "interracial" if you will, breeding.
2007-01-25 17:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Vantado 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can she be in love with someone she hardly knows? it's a silly crush.. nothing more.. heck, i got crushes when i was 14, and still do now that i am 33. bottom line, tell her he is gay, tell her the age gap is to big anyway..
it's ok to fantasize about someone, but it is unhealthy to obsess oversome you can't have.. i have learned that the hard way.. try to keep her busy. hang out as friends and get her meeting other people.. best way to get over someone is to meet others..
2007-01-25 17:30:44 · answer #3 · answered by Jeff 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um does she know he's gay? try telling her. trust me, the good ones are always gay or married. he's probably a great guy lol.
2007-01-25 17:20:54 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to let your firend know and tell her that he is at age and she not 18 so she can not do nothing to him
2007-01-25 17:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by back248 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's sorta up to her to decide this.
2007-01-25 21:13:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋