My boyfriend and I don't like using condoms. He always pulls out, for now, but we know this isn't the safest,

Question

please tell me what is he safe method to make a gap of 4 year, pill i couldn't take daily,

Answer 1

cut your ovalarys off

Answer 2

I cant really understand what you are asking but here are different methods of birth control that don't involve repeating; only need to use when you are having sex.

1. Condoms, obviously...but you don't want them which is a bad choice in my book (this is the best method for pregnancy and STD's)
2. Diaphragm, this is inserted inside the vagina over the cervix. You go to the doctor to get this fixed and it is reusable.(70% effective for pregnancy and doesn't protect against STD's)
3. Female condom, condom that is inserted inside the vagina like a bag (protects against STD's and pregnancy, fragile and not as effective as a condom).
4. Spermicide, a foam that is inserted into the vagina and kills off the sperm. (Doesnt protect againt STD's and can be very messy.)

There are others but I dont know much about them:

5. something that is inserted underneath your skin that releases hormones so you wont get pregnant.
6. another thing that is placed inside the vagina and covers the fallopian tubes, is metal and is uncomfortable.

HOPE THAT HELPS!

Answer 3

If you are monogamous (only having sex with each other) and you've both been tested for sexually transmitted diseases and are both negative, then there are a lot of options for birth control you can try (if you aren't monogamous and you haven't been tested, you MUST use condoms to protect yourself against diseases!). Talk to your doctor about the best option for you. Some of those options might include: diaphrams, IUDs, different birth control pills that might not have side effects for you, etc. There is also a female condom that you can try -- it's much less constricting for the man, so your boyfriend might like the way it works a bit better. You should be able to find female condoms at the drug store.

Answer 4

try using spermicide as well as the pull out method...it may give u just a little bit of added protection but not much...there r also other forms of birth control that u can take that don't require u to take them daily...u should really have a back up plan cuz the chances of u getting pregnant or worse getting an std is great.

Answer 5

Your boyfriend of course doesn't like them. No guys like condoms, but responsible guys wear them anyway. YOU are the one who should dictate whether he wears one or not, it is your body he is putting his tool in. Absolutely the withdrawal method is the worst birth control method practiced. Pulling out to ejaculate does not guarentee he doesn't eject some sperm in his pre-ejaculate, nore do guys just ejaculate at one time--he may release a tiny spurt or two without being able to hold back, and never let you know-and just pull out a few seconds later to blow the whole wad. You need a new boyfriend, if he won't be responsible and wear a condom.

Answer 6

Pulling out is far and away the least reliable method of birth control ever. Part of the problem here is that before the guy ejaculates he puts out some clear fluid which is absolutely loaded with live sperm cells. Why not contact your local Planned Parenthood for birth control alternatives. In the meantime, of course, there are other ways of having sex that do not involve intercourse.

Answer 7

You can still get pregnant even if he pulls out and ejaculates. Pre-come is come and it does contain sperm. Also you are really "cheating" him because he does not get the full enjoyment of sex. And in case you have not had an orgasm once he is out you are cheated. Experiment with different kinds of condoms and find the right one for you. They are safe and they prevent the spread of STD's, and you can both enjoy. I know that I practiced "pull-out" and it was really frustrating.

Answer 8

It all depends on where you are from as to what there is for you. There is many types of birthcontrols.... besides the condom or pill, there is also the IUD (intra uterine device), cervical cap, sponge, patch, depo-provera (needle). These are non-permanant, and vary in length each one lasts before needing to be changed, and cost. Hope this helps you.

Answer 9

condoms are the only safe method, i see no point in not using them it doesnt feel any different and is less messy when using them.

Answer 10

since you dont like condoms, dont like the pill, rhthym method unreliable... then your only recourse is abstinence...

( actually, you can go to your Gyne and have an IUD ( intra uterine device ) inserted )

Answer 11

How about a diaphragm, nuva ring, implantable birth control, IUD, vaginal contraceptive film, vaginal suppositories, the today sponge or the female condom?