2007-01-25 16:53:37 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he got married because of her parents..here in the philippines, divorce is not granted..only annullment and requires a big amount..he spends most of his time with us after work..he's already filing for an annullment..help me guys..is my decision right?
2007-01-25 17:53:42 · update #1
I believe if you feel the need to get on here and ask a bunch of strangers if you made the right decision then you really deep down inside know the answer to this question.
2007-01-31 15:44:24 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are living in a fool's paradise if you think he won't do the same to you that he is doing to his wife. Why are you even bothering? If he will cheat on her, he will cheat on you. If he didn't love his wife from the start he is either a big liar or an idiot for getting married. You will probably get named as a corespondent and that will ruin your reputation in the community and hurt your son as well and then a few years from now you will go through the same thing. This is NOT a good plan.
2007-01-25 17:07:18 · answer #2 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like he has much back bone, if he was forced to marry this girl. What? They held a gun to his head? I don't think so. Are you very, VERY sure of these circumstances? I'm not sure how you can find out, but remember there are always two sides to every story. He should have had the cahones to say no. Either way, he's a cheater. I've learned that once a cheater, always a cheater. Do you want to go through what wife #1 is going through? Is it fair to you child?
2007-02-02 04:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any man who is married and seeing you on the side is a dishonest man. If he doesn't love his wife he should have been honest with her and made the move to leave her, bt instead he is still with her and keeping you in the wings. This man has you both right where he wants you, two women at his beck and call.
Get rid of him, one way or another he will hurt you. He'll either continue telling you he;ll leave his wife but never will or he'll get together with you leave his wife and get himself another mistress on the side. Men like that don't change thier spots, a pattern is a pattern.
2007-01-31 18:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by MsTrust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking from first hand experience. WAIT until he leaves his wife. I did not and I am still dealing with heartache everyday. I just found out last night that "she" is pregnant. Nothing has ever hurt so bad. If he didn't love her from the start then why did he get married??? You are worth so much more, someone who is all about you and only you. love hurts enough on it's own why make it worse for yourself. Be strong girl!!!!! No matter what he says actions speak louder than words!!!!
2007-01-25 17:11:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact Jerry Springer
2007-01-25 17:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in case you go with your marriage, then nip it interior the bud. parent out what made you've an affair interior the first position. parent out in case you go with your marriage anymore. because getting stuck must be worse, reason your husband can make that determination for you. on the different note, tell the guy you're dishonest with that you go with your marriage to artwork, and also you've been at a loss for words. it is all you may do. good luck.
2016-10-16 03:08:43 · answer #7 · answered by woodie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. A man will tell you only what you want to hear. No one is forced to do what they dont want to do. He obviously married her for a reason. Put your self in this womans shoes. How would you feel? If they have children, how would the kids feel? Their daddy left them all because another woman came along. Do onto others what you expect others to do onto you.
2007-02-02 16:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by Nani 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please save yourself a lot of pain and heartache. Wait for him to leave his wife first. Make sure he at least separates and moves out of the house before you ever imagine living with him. Better still, make sure he has the legal divorce in his hands.
2007-01-25 16:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by KingGeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have fallen for the oldest line in the book....I never loved her in the first place, well think about it really long and hard then ask him why did you marry her....If he didn't love her then why is he still married...please save yourself a lot of heartache and tell him to hit the bricks, you and your son both deserve better.
2007-01-25 17:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by proud to be an American 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋