I am 12 and i dont have any females i can talk to about this so i am going to ask you. How can i prepare for my periods like at school and everything? If you have any websites that give video demonstrations on inserting tampons and everything. So how do i prepare is my main question. Please help!
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2007-01-25 16:15:45 · 26 answers · asked by cheeky_lollies 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
I agree with "Zansmommy"... you can email me as well... I am 19 and have a 7 week old daughter that i stay home with... I would love to email with you... Mama_Cass88@yahoo.com... i think between the 2 of us you should be set! I have a cousin your age who i just helped straighten out this time of her life, and i know it can be hard to be 12... so email me any time! hope to hear from you!!
2007-01-25 20:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Tiggy's Momma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep track of your cycles...how long your cycle is, how many days your period lasts, etc. Write it down on a calender so you remember easier. That way it'll be easier to know around when your period is going to come. But if your cycles are totally different or overly long (like 45 or more) or short (less than 24 days), then it'd be a good idea to see a gynocologist.
ALWAYS carry pads and/or tampons with you. Even if it's just one of each (better than having nothing with you when you need it!). 12 isn't necessarily "too young" to use tampons, although most 12 year olds don't feel comfortable enough to use them yet. However, I was at a young age and I always liked them better. You could also carry some Tylenol or Midol in your purse with you if you get cramps or headaches.
If you want to use tampons, I suggest visiting O.B.'s webpage: obtampons.com ...there's a guide instructing on the correct way to use them. There's also always a little pamphlet inside the boxes that you can look at.
I hope all of us women here have help you a bit! You could also always ask the school nurse, if you feel comfortable enough with that.
Welcome to womanhood. =P
2007-01-26 04:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by Megan V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most purses there's a small pocket in the back that zips up. The best thing I can tell you is to put the tampons in there so no one else can see them and you'll always know where they are.
But I would agree with most of these people here you are to young to use tampons and you might put yourself at some type of risk if you do use them.
If you periods don't seem to be heavy then I would look into getting the light to medium pads their not that big and they also don't take up as much space as the over night once do.
Or if your concerned about odder the Always Pads have on the comes with a little wipe with every pad. I can say they work good.
2007-01-26 00:35:48 · answer #3 · answered by JG78 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate you have to go through this alone. Most females have a cycle which starts every 28 to 30 days. It can last anywhere from 4 days to 6 days (being a normal cycle). Since it seems like you're just starting out it would be good to get a calendar so that you can see how your cycle will run. Most people are like clock work every month. Meaning they know exactly when they are going to start. Somethings can alter your cycle coming on regularly like stress or exercise.
When you know you are about to start a cycle just carry some products with you to school. If you think it will be during a class go ahead and ready yourself so you're not embarrassed and your clothes aren't ruined. You don't have to use tampons if you don't want to, pads work just as well (a little bulky but you get use to it).
I hope this is a start for helping you.
2007-01-26 00:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by TLA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should stick with pads for a while. Tampons can be dangerous if you leave them in for a long time. Waite till you are used to having a period before you use tampons. Other than that have about 3 pads with you all the time so that you are not caught off guard. The only time you will need tampons for sure is if you swim. The box will have instructions for you. Can you talk to a teacher or the school nurse?
2007-01-26 00:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by uuummk 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Okay. First of all, go to the store and buy some junior pads and SLENDER tampons (start with a plastic inserter...more expensive but soooo much easier on the first try!!!). Put two pads (at least) in your backpack and at least two in your purse. That way you will have some with you wherever you go.
I know some people say not to use tampons yet, but honestly, talk to your pediatrician. If you are responsible and mature and need to wear them, then ask your doctor and go for it. I was on the swimteam so I had to learn to use them fast! lol. And I absolutely love them. I always use them...never pads. It just feels so icky to have blood clinging to your butt and stuff. (Hope that wasn't too graphic, lol.)
But make sure you read the instructions on the tampon box and DO NOT leave a tampon in for more than six hours!!!! And don't have sex with a tampon in. Just for your future reference. =]
2007-01-26 14:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by purplmonkeez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first you should make sure that you want to use tampons. You don't have to use those if you don't want to. If that is your choice the information is on the box. They are all pretty much the same but it's right on the box. You can also use pads. These are much easier and may be a little less scary for you. The information for those is also on the box. You can also go to your school nurse and talk to her about it. She can help you and she may even keep pads in her office for emergencies.
2007-01-26 00:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by quel772o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by "prepare?" I'm assuming you are afraid of starting your period at school or in public. Usually you have some indication that you are going to start. Usually your breasts will feel tender or sore, you may have cramps or your lower back will hurt. When you buy tampons they have instructions with a picture that can help you. I don't know about videos or anything.
2007-01-26 00:23:02 · answer #8 · answered by keri gee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think thered be a video since it goes on inside the body and cameras cant really get into there but there might be a diagram. inside of every book of tampons theres a little book that will answer your question much better, and for if you get it at school keep a pad in your purse or back pack, not a tampon because on your first time you wont know what size to use and you probably wont be able to get it in on your first time
2007-01-26 12:27:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great website. It talks about everything from politics to health issues. It explains hard to deal with situations and you can even get involved. The page I've sent you is all about heath--tampons, periods, and all that great stuff! I hope this helps you out! I can only imagine how rough things can get without having another woman around to talk about these things with! Email me if you need anything!
2007-01-26 00:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by .vato. 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sweety, go get a travel pack of tampons and pads. They have the instructions in the box and they are very descriptive. Take them in your back pack and your ready to go. They have the ones that are discreet too so you don't feel embarrassed when you have to grab for one.
Oh.. and the comment i read on your too young for tampons?! whatever.. i was 9 when i started my period.. and have been using them ever since. just make sure you are sanitary and change them as needed or recommended and you'll be fine
good luck
2007-01-26 04:11:32 · answer #11 · answered by avaniqafaye 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋