2007-01-25 16:12:02 · 19 answers · asked by jo 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
If you haven't had sex you are still a virgin. But as far as the hymen goes it can be ripped by horseback riding, gymnastics, Ballet.
2007-01-25 17:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to know if you can tell if a girl is still a virgin? Most of the time you will not be able to tell unless you are a doc and get down and look up there. The hymen can be destroyed by horsback riding, sports ets so even if the hymen is gone, the female is still a virgin. You cant tell if a guy is or not. There is no hymen for males. Once the penis goes into the vagina....you are no longer a virgin. If you just rub yourself of the girl but never go in..you are still a virgin
2007-01-26 03:12:51 · answer #2 · answered by I hate stupid ppl like you 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its for you and you think your may have been raped and not know or if you are unsure of what you have done means your not a virgin then i would suggest see a doctor they can do tests
If it is about someone else you want to know, either ask them or if they arent sure tell them to go 2 the doctors.
With a girl it is when the hymen has broken, but this doesnt alsways work cause that can be done with tampons, horseriding, masterbation, ballet.
It is anyform of penetration suposingly, i only class it as the penis entering.
Goodluck hope u find out b4 its 2 late n then we have another 40yr old virgin jokes.
Goodluck sweetie xoxoxoxoxoxo
2007-01-26 05:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by fi_beans90 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think perhaps you are asking how to tell if your child is still a virgin. The only way to do this is to sit down and ask him (parent of the same sex, please).
Start by saying that you know he is older now and that members of the opposite sex might start to look appealing. If he seems to agree, then tell him about why he is or is not allowed to date. If he has already started seeing someone, hint around until the subject of sex comes up. Explain what your expectations are as to when it's appropriate to have sex (ie, in marriage, when you're in love, etc). Establish a good rapport with your child now and he will come to you when he has questions.
If you are desperately unsatisfied with this conversation or series of conversations, you can get just a little bit sneaky. If you still do the laundry, check pockets and underwear. But do not poke around too much or violate his privacy (do not enter his room or open shut drawers!) because if you give him reason not to trust you he won't, and then when he finds himself in trouble will not come to you.
If you are very worried that your daughter is having sex, you can offer to put her on birthcontrol and frame it as "just in case" to avoid awkwardness. Of course, if you child is far, far to young to engage in this kind of behavior, like 12 or 13, get him out of his current situation and into some counselling IMMEDIATELY.
You want to always have a positive, open, and loving relationship with your children. Give them all the support and information you can and they will surprise you by following your wishes.
PS: If you think your child might be exploring homosexuality, you absolutely MUST be openminded and accepting. Freaking out will only drive him or her away from you. Find a counsellor who deals with guiding young gays and lesbians into adulthood and love them, no matter what.
2007-01-26 05:29:43 · answer #4 · answered by Mysterious Gryphon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 100% clean and pure (i.e virgin) if you do not have any sexual intercourse with anyone yet. Unless you have given yourself to another person in the sense that you have sex with another guy, at that moment you are say to lose your virginity and most of the cases when you have your 1st sexual inetrcourse, your hymen will tear and will bleed.
2007-01-26 00:50:32 · answer #5 · answered by Hey! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a male sticks his penis into your vagina or anus, then you are not a virgin. Or...if you're a guy...if you have stuck your penis into somebody's vagina or anus, you are no longer a virgin.
Using tampons does not take away your virginity. Masturbating does not take away your virginity. Oral sex does not take away your virginity. All common myths. Don't believe them.
2007-01-26 14:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by purplmonkeez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are still a virgin if you havent had sex. Even if you masterbate you are still a vigin. Only if you have sex then you arnt a virgin. I hope this helps.
xoxox
2007-01-26 00:17:14 · answer #7 · answered by cheeky_lollies 1 · 5⤊ 0⤋
like everyone said, if you havent had sex you're a virgin. but when you have sex with some one you can not tell. even a doc can never tell 100%.
you just have to be able to trust them
2007-01-26 05:14:17 · answer #8 · answered by jennifer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
definately u r a virgin if you have'nt sexual intercourse yet..or you will know that she is still a virgin if you're having sex with her..(not unless you try)
2007-01-26 00:30:31 · answer #9 · answered by max 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u r still a virgin as long as u dont have sexual intercourse
2007-01-26 00:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by why me? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋