Are men scarred to apprach women more as the years go by, it seems like in the 60's 70's 80's men approached women more....and with more respect, it seems like my generation of men or more disrespectful and more scarred to approach women because they are too afraid of being rejected. i'm a nice looking girl and guys stare at me but they never approach me. i thought it was just me, but my friends feel the same way, it's like a "man-approaching" shortage. What is with men these days?
2007-01-25 15:57:19 · 7 answers · asked by Cherry 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
AluntaticF... I am a lady, Indont need to loook it up in the dictionary to know i to be one either, i carry myself with the upmost grace from the way i sit (i dont cross my legs) to the way i pull my hair back (i use 2 fingers). And I have a good attitude.
2007-01-26 00:48:44 · update #1
the majority of men want decent women who know how to be women and how to honestly respect themselves and others... women have done it to themselves by acting more like stereotypes of some hollywood immage than real women... women who act like trash keep away men who are looking for something more than a quick f***. They do not want to bother sorting out the trash to find the lost diamonds......and most men do not really want to commit to a woman who has given it away to every one they meet for the first time.
2007-01-25 16:15:35 · answer #1 · answered by idahomike2 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
The question you have to asked is why are they scared. Women have changed so i opened a door for a female and was actually rebuked for it. Because I guess she was man enough to do it for herself. The problem is it almost depends on the girl. There is no rule that a man can follow to be a man to a women. If he is chivalrous (Spelling?). She can be happy or call him a pig for not respecting the power of women. What do you want us to be . To me it looks "confused". Usually I do not approach women for the single reason that I like to get to know a little about them before I get to the level of talking to them alone. The feminist movement destroyed the male and female roles so as to not let the man understand his role anymore. it now depends on what role the women takes. You want men to ask for your #. Be a real lady (look it up in older books for a true definition. Newer books will have the after 60's definition) The good men will know how to treat you like a lady. And you will be able to tell who the losers are easier.
2007-01-26 00:44:12 · answer #2 · answered by ALunaticFriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are men scarred? Well, I believe that generally they are trying to recover their scarred egos from the shock of the women's lib movement, but they need to get over it.
Are they scared? I doubt it. Some women are intimidating and if that's how they come off they don't care what a man thinks. Women who are inviting to men won't scare a real man.
I think men and women are putting up walls to keep from being judged and they are limiting their humanity by doing so.
When I met my husband, he had 5 women hanging on him in a local tavern. He beckoned to me (he's a Latin lover), but I beckoned back and he came to me. He told me how amazing it is here in the US that women approach the men. He's commented on how that will make a man just kick back because he knows the women will come to him. He believes that US men got that attitude from being chased by women.
I guess the aggressor gets the goods.
But as time has gone by, the women's liberation stuff is settling out and other factors in society are at play...I stand by my judgemental society theory and all the walls and roles we don to fit in.
2007-01-26 00:26:19 · answer #3 · answered by ladystardonna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, men are fearful of approaching women because of fear of rejection. Just like us women feel if we are rejected. Men are no different than we are in that way. You can be the brave one and go up to a man you find attractive and start a conversation. Step out and be brave you might find a nice guy in the process.
2007-01-26 00:06:19 · answer #4 · answered by Cat 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Women have become more independent and some men find that intimidating. A good looking girl who can provide for herself... what can a normal man offer her? Also of course there is the fear of rejection but that's minor (at least to me, how else would I have gotten my fiance). Yes men are disrespectful pigs and need to learn a few lessons, please just bear with us and be on the look out for shy guys maybe their gaze will dart away from yours when you glace his way. Go say hi, I bet he will respect you more than you could imagine. Be well and good luck out there.
2007-01-26 00:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by nyoo1578 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Some guys may be intimidated by you. And then we are in this new day in age where women approach men. I don't approach any man, never have ~ never will. If a man is man enough to approach you, he's worth it. If not.... let it be.
2007-01-26 00:05:00 · answer #6 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Probably women are tougher to approach.
Don't worry about it. You find the right guy if your patient.
You really like him? Ask him out, ..., if he does not. What the point of being liberated if you give us the sole right of being rejected. Take a chance on a nice guy. Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
2007-01-26 00:09:13 · answer #7 · answered by rostov 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋