Hes 12 and I really want him to finish school but I really dont want to have to raise his little brat when it comes.
Any ideas?
2007-01-25 15:44:11 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Have you considered having the girl whacked?
2007-01-25 15:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 13⤋
Sorry, I don't want to be mean, but the thing you have to ask yourself is what did you teach your child about sex? Did you teach him to always wear a condom because it could prevent getting a girl pregnant or getting a sexually transmitted disease? Did you buy him condoms? Or did you think he would never have sex because I taught him abstinence. I know you never think a child that young would have sex but look at the world and see how many teens there are who are very young getting pregnant. If she wants to keep the child there is nothing you can do. You have to teach your son to be responsible for the child he helped create and to help him stay in school. His little brat? Is that the way you see your son? I can't help but wonder all these things. Above all you need to help him become that father. He needs your help more than ever and so does your grandchild. The advice I can give you is teach him to be a father when he is not in school and be a grandmother who takes care of that child while he is in school. There is also adoption if she wants it adopted, but those two created that child. Help him know his responsibility with this child. I don't think there is much that you can do if the other parents agree to keep that baby. Please teach him to do the right thing.
I read your other questions....you better hope your son doesn't eat his boogers and talk about zits on his butt on yahoo answers. Best suggestion. I also hope this is a joke, but either way, not funny.
2007-01-25 15:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly s 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations. This is the time in your life as a mother where you need to do some growing up of your own. Sit down and talk to the girl's parents, then sit down and TALK to the kids. This should be done with the girls parents in the room as well. Talk to the kids about their options.
As new parents, they should be given two choices. 1) Abortion 2) adoption.
Due to the age of these kids, they should not be allowed to raise the child. Perhaps the girl's parents will adopt the child as their own. If not, then allow the hospital to put it up for adoption their own way.
These kids, by no means, should be allowed to see each other again either.
And do yourself a favor. Get out of the attitude that you're still a teenager and grow up. If you had raised your son properly, you wouldn't have a grandchild on the way just 12 years after having your son.
2007-01-25 16:16:38 · answer #3 · answered by Chryssta 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to keep a closer watch on your children! A 12 year old boy shouldn't have enough alone time to get a girl pregnant. You are obviously not watching over your children enough, or they are not being watched in school. You should send your children to a different school. this is the most pathetic thing I've ever heard. an 11 year old girl shouldn't even know what a prostitute is (although with they way society is, it's hard to shelter your children, because there are bad parents out there who send their children to school with your children) I feel so bad for your children. You should sit down with them and your wife and have a discussion about family values and teach them the importance of living a pure life. they are too young to be acting that way, and they don't do that naturally, it's because they've been exposed to adult subjects at too young an age. Maybe you should consider homeschooling and restricting their computer and tv usage. wow, so sad. Society these days sickens me.
2016-05-24 00:42:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept it. I know a lot of states now have laws where the grandparents are responsible for a grandchild if the parent is a minor. You could always see if the girl wants to give the child up for adoption, she's obviously not going to be a good parent now if she's having sex w/ a 12 year old. Know that there are things you cannot change, and don't take it out on the baby when it comes. Why would he have to quit school? He can't get a job, especially if you make him drop out now, he's too young, most states you have to be 16. You act as if the parenting responsibility will be all on you, don't forget your son, the girl, and her parents will be involved too. But I'd counsel for adoption, there are thousands of childless couples who are dying to have a baby, and spending thousands to make their dream come true. Make someone else's day, someone who can provide the love, attention, and money you obviously don't want to. Good luck!
2007-01-25 15:57:37 · answer #5 · answered by heartlostangel 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why is your son out having sex at 12????????????
And that little brat will be your grandson. With an attitude like that, maybe i should retract my first question. Cause if you talk like that about an unborn futuregrand baby I can only wonder what you say to or about your son.
If he went out and got a girl pregnant, he should take responsibility! It's not like he's the one carrying the baby, she is!!!
She's the one that holds all the cards right now... not your son!
But if she goes through with the pregnancy, which she should, your son should step up to the plate as a father!!!
Even if he is a child himself!!
2007-01-25 16:17:49 · answer #6 · answered by missjewl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow. This is serious. Your family and hers need to get together and discuss this life altering decision. Depending on both families perhaps there should be a doctor or clergy present or even professionals in the field. You and your son should have some counseling. This is not a "brat", this is a new life that did not ask to come into this world but it has happened and that should be considered. A baby is a beautiful new life and there are options and someone that would love to have a child to love. Seek help, please.
2007-01-25 15:58:14 · answer #7 · answered by me, myself, & I 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Your son is WAY to young to support a child. I wouldn't call the baby a "brat" is this a joke? The whole situation is so sad. I would talk to the girls parents and encourage an adoption of the child to a "loving" couple who would love the child and have a positive attitude towards the baby. And talk to your son!
2007-01-25 15:59:24 · answer #8 · answered by jag 3 · 7⤊ 0⤋
Raise the child. Put it up for adoption. Let the girl's family take care of it and pay child support. Abortion is always an option. There aren't many things to do but any way you slice it this is a hard decision.
2007-01-25 18:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by Jason 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well; if youd been keeping a better eye on your son and taught him safe sex this wouldnt of happened in the first place!! But do you really want to teach your son to be a dead beat father? He's got to be an active role in that childs life~ and thats your grandchild your calling a "brat"~ your own flesh and blood! What kind of an awful person are you?
2007-01-25 15:53:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 10⤊ 0⤋
Are you 12 as well?
2007-01-25 15:51:58 · answer #11 · answered by shugarmagnolia420 4 · 11⤊ 1⤋