Im 18 and female .I like guys and have dated guys before but If I would consder dating a girl is that normal ? would it mean im bisexual?I have did some sexual things with a girl before but not oral sex or as$ licking or used sex toys with her. If I dated a girl only for a day or a week would that make me bisexual?
2007-01-25 15:42:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If you are interested in dating a girl, then try it. You don't have to put a label on yourself. Why rush to identify your sexuality? Lots of teens are confused or curious. I say try it. If it doesn't seem right, then maybe it's not for you.
2007-01-25 18:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by dresdendarling 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without trying to sound like my parents, the only thing that matters in this situation is how you feel about yourself, not your label. At 18, you are still going through a period of uncertainty about yourself, and you are still young so you shouldn't be in a rush to say you are straight or bisexual or whatever. That being said, if you have had sexual experiences with another girl, it may mean that you are 'bisexual.' However, it could also mean that you experimented during your youth, which almost everyone does in some way or another.
There is no such thing as normal. The closest thing to normal that you will experience is whatever you personally consider normal, without outside influence. There is however, societal norms. Thankfully you (and I) are growing up in a time when sexual orientations and gender identities other than straight and male & female are becoming more and more socially 'normal' and acceptable.
I apologize if this makes less-than-perfect sense...it is 6am and I am sleep-deprived. I hope I have at least helped a bit...
2007-01-26 05:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by Tim K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're only 18. Don't label yourself, youth is for (SAFE) experimenting. Try what feels right at the moment, learn to talk to your partner - whether it's a partner for the hour, the week or longer. No matter what you chose to do, SAFE SEX is the only way to do it. And if the other person doesn't agree, just walk away. There are other people out there with enough brains to realize that safe sex is the most important thing.
2007-01-30 12:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by FTW 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate. I started having feelings for girls in my early 20's, now I'm entering my mid 30's and I'm still stalling. I don't now if I want to be bi-sexual, but I am pretty sure that I am not a lesbian, either. But it has got to the point that I haven't dated a guy for over a year because I think about women all of the time. I guess it's normal for us to waiver and be unsure.
2007-01-26 11:44:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady, by your age, it is likely that if you are sexually attracted to men and women you are bisexual. Some people experiment in college because it's the first time away from family and they are experiencing life. If you are attracted to another woman enough to date her, then you are a lesbian--- or bisexual if you still have sexual feelings for men. Stop worrying about labels. Enjoy life. Hang out with people who make. Hang out with people who make you feel good about yourself- whether it's a man or a woman. Have a good time but please be careful.
2007-02-01 21:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to GO FOR IT! it doesn't sux. But if you just like sex ect. with a girl it doesn't nessasarily mean your bisexual. ANYONE can like sex with a girl. But feelings are what counts. If you want to be supported or support a girl in a realtionship try it. If you like it and want to do it again then yes you maybe bisexual.
2007-02-02 22:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ashers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you are pretty young. Don't confused your mind with labeling your-self. Just let it be, always in a safe way, always sincerely, never hurting anybody. In the future you will realize what are you attracted the most. Or better what person you will fall in love.
2007-01-30 15:03:49 · answer #7 · answered by Pato FV 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 33, began dating women around 20...hmmm yes, i think if you are having thoughts and you've already tried a few things..you'll probably keep doing it..it's not a bad thing, i hope it doesn't disappoint you in yourself..the criticism nowadays is not so bad..
2007-01-30 03:06:55 · answer #8 · answered by cutegirlin_tn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you do all that with the guys if you like it all with them and they do what you want and your not shy to say do this do that . then try to stick with men .
other then that i suggest you have a 3 some and see what happens plus your bf might learn some new things .
and a#ss licking is great try it and love it
2007-01-27 01:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal is in the eye of you and you alone... Anybody who tells you otherwise has got there head in the wrong place.. No one should be able to tell you what is good for you. So what, you might be bi- big deal... Who cares it doesnt hurt anybody does it.
2007-02-01 14:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by jbhard86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋