Im 18 and female .I like guys and have dated guys before but If I would consder dating a girl is that normal ? would it mean im bisexual?I have did some sexual things with a girl before but not oral sex or *** licking or used sex toys with her. If I dated a girl only for a day or a week would that make me bisexual?
2007-01-25 15:41:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I want to comment on what iragisax said . stealing is a choice but ur sexuality isnt its like u did not choice to be straight u just feel the way u do and no one can make u gay and if u tryed to be one u couldnt be cause ur sexuaulity isnt based on who u sleep with a straight person is stil straight even if they never has sex or dates casue ur sexuality is based on how u feel and if u like to sleep with both sex then yea ur bi but any one who is like would stil be bi even if they didnt sleep with both cause the attraction for both is stil there and u have afended me but I stil respect ur opion just dont push it on bi or homsexuality. there are gay and may be even lesbians who have tryed being straight, been in hetersexual relationships and they meanless like they mean any thing they were unhappy . they or bi people cant be straight any more then straight people can be homsexual or bisexual but may be for the women who apealy went lez made that choice if so most dont chose.
2007-01-25 19:36:32 · update #1
yes it is normal to experiment and be curious.. is it normal to be bisexual? well, that depends on your definition of normal.. most people think they are straight, but i bet more are bi and just don't realize it yet.. took me 33 years to admit and acknowledge that i am bi.. so for me, it is normal!
bottom line, don't worry about labelling yourself. just date whoever you want to, and don't rush into sex until you are comfortable with the person..
2007-01-25 15:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Jeff 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are bisexual, yes, and no, there's nothing abnormal about it. There are people who think there is, but they're wrong. I'm a member of Straight But Not Narrow, and have done some reading. What I've read says that when we're conceived, we're conceived on an arc-shaped molecule or DNA particle or something I don't remember, that determines our sexual orientation in that second of conception. I couldn't make love with a woman for anything. You could. So what. It will only mean you are in a culture that sanctions the making of children as official, and you'll need bisexual friends for support. It's not a choice, it's determined at conception. There is argument, whether this is true, but I believe it is. It makes sense. There's so much we don't know, that we pretend we do, or consult some authority to make us feel we're right. Your best answers will come from scientific research.
2007-01-25 23:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dinah 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. For one simple reason! You've never discussed your EMOTIONS about what your feeling when you "think" about women. Do they attract you, excite you, etc? Or are you just clinically curious? If your just curious, you're just curious, nothing more, nothing less. If you have emotions involved, and have for a while, then your most likely bi-sexual. This is not something that whacks you on the head at 3:37 pm during the day. You are this way or your not. Its about feelings, not actions.
Straight men in Prison can perform homsexual acts for decades, then get out and go home to their wives and live out their lives happily ever after as a straight couple. Yes, he had "gay sex" but it was an action, not a fantasy, or a real emotion! It was just an act he performed.
2007-01-26 00:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question illustrates the fact that homosexuality is a choice. You are asking others their opinion of how they view homosexual acts, which indicates to me that you are contemplating making a choice.
I don't believe that it is correct to designate a person a homosexual, implying that his or her sexual desires are equivalent to that persons hair or skin color. Nobody was born a homosexual, because they either chose to commit homosexual act, or not. I can steal, or I can not steal. It is my choice. I was not born a thief, and I was not born an honest person. I am in control. I am not a victim!
2007-01-25 23:56:24 · answer #4 · answered by iraqisax 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you did not state what age you were when you did this stuff with the other girl . however at your age still now you are working things out in regard to sex and life .
i would say put this in the young and learning experimenting category and leave it at that . draw no conclusions from this other then that's life
2007-01-25 23:54:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are gust learning what sex is so slow down and try to relax.Everyone has that thinking.Try not to label yourself gust yet.Take it one day at a time.
2007-01-25 23:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not gay, you are be confused by TV, public school, music, and the sick culture in America. You are too young to even be having sex. You should consentrait on becoming a product person first, then find a good MAN to marry. Homosexuality is an abomination to God. You need to stop fooling around and get your head straight. Don't listen to all these worldly idiots and ****** telling you "that's right, your go girl." They don't know what the hell they are talking about. They just need more perverts to join their perverted "life style" so they have a supply of fresh meat. Being gay is not gay, and it is not a life style; it is a death style.
2007-01-25 23:54:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 6⤋
I don't think you would be considered bisexual, maybe a 'Push-over' is a better term.
2007-01-26 02:02:59 · answer #8 · answered by older, not wiser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question is, "is it normal for you"? If you have no problems with your sexuality, then its normal for you, and to hell with what others think in their normality. Normal is relative, and situational. What's normal in one society could be abnormal in another, and likewise with individuals!!!
2007-01-25 23:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Tunney 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in a way it will mean you r bisexual in a way
2007-01-26 01:24:15 · answer #10 · answered by back248 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋