As we all know, women can sometimes get a little bratty or upitty sometimes due to horrmonal changes and sometimes they need to be disciplined. The only problem is that in public you can't just spank your girlfriend or wife in front of everyone. Well, a buddy suggested that men should give silent non-contact 'spankings' to women by getting them to put Capsazin creme on their fanny in a bathroom and then it will give them a feeling similar to if they were actually spanked. He said it should last maybe 30 minutes and that it is a great way to get women to behave. I am still not so sure if it is the right thing to do. What do you all suggest?
2007-01-25 15:11:02 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yeah, that's an awesome idea. Damn women and their hormones.
2007-01-25 15:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by * 4 · 1⤊ 6⤋
Well, first of all, such things only take place in situations where one person has consented to be held accountable in such a way. This is called a "domestic discipline" relationship, and is quite healthy if practiced in a sane manner. The other person, male or female, has to actually desire that kind of discipline in their lives, or it won't work for them. Plus, without consent, it's not discipline. It's abuse. Do an online search for domestic discipline sites to educate yourself (I'd recommend it for some of the previous answerers, too) before you try something stupid with a girl that isn't interested.
As for the Capsaicin, yes, that works. The effect can be created with any muscle rub that has either capsicum or menthol, but the capsicum, preferably a high potency, will work the best. It will sting for days, actually, and is heat-activated, so a warm shower (or a real spanking) will cause it to flare up. Using capsicum, and then adding a real spanking on top of it will really drive the message home.
Personally, though, I prefer the hands-on approach. If you really work at it, you can find someplace private enough to give her a real spanking, and it'll have more effect than telling her to go to the bathroom to apply it herself. Discipline has more effect when it comes directly from a loved one, and making her apply it herself makes the entire thing seem impersonal.
Again, this kind of relationship is based on consent. If you try to spank a girl, silent or otherwise, that doesn't want to be held accountable in that way, then what you'll end up with is a lawsuit.
2007-01-26 06:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by baka_otaku30 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't recomend this.It comes down to a trust issue.How can you be certain she will obey you and put the Capsazin creme on the fanny? You're taking a big risk here buddy and could find yourself with more discipline issues. I would just stick with the spankings, yes you may get some strange looks but it's guranteed to work.Good luck with what ever you choose!!
2007-01-26 11:15:04 · answer #3 · answered by Puddin 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Generally, if you are consistent at home in punishing misbehavior, all you'd have to do is give her "the look" to stop her public misbehavior. That's all my husband has to do.
But I have heard of Capsazin cream and know it works well for some couples.
2007-01-27 09:29:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We also all know that guys can be real dogs, eyeing up other women right in front of their significant others. how do you feel about a guy needing to be snapped back into line by putting Icy Hot on their scrotum for the evening?
What's good for the goose is good for the gander.
What you're suggesting is the ultimate breakdown of trust and respect. Not much to build a healthy relationship on.
Best to you.
2007-01-25 23:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by Timothy W 5 · 4⤊ 4⤋
HMMM in my world men are just as guilty of giving out those non contact spankings as women. Sometimes worse.
2007-01-25 23:24:26 · answer #6 · answered by icunurse85 7 · 4⤊ 3⤋
Are you 12?
2007-01-25 23:36:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 7⤋
I must put on a hijab before I address you, good sir
2007-01-26 17:47:11 · answer #8 · answered by FoxyFoxy, Kickass Drama Queen 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
well, women shouldnt be diciplined by thier men, but some do like a good spanking, and would probally enjoy the cream....
2007-01-25 23:24:27 · answer #9 · answered by superyduperymommy 5 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I do not think there is any such thing as a non-contact spanking. I think your friend is making things up!
2007-01-25 23:33:39 · answer #10 · answered by Tony M 7 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Go Shy 1!! I'm telling you, you ever tried that sh*t on me, as a boxer I'd lay you out!!! You don't respect me, I don't respect you!!
Simple as that!!
2007-01-26 04:42:57 · answer #11 · answered by ♥ Baybee♥ 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋