so my boyfriend lied to me about hanging out with his EX Girlfriend.
I super mad at him.
But there is one more thing that makes me confused.
when he was hanging out with her she brought her current boyfriend along.
So should i be mad even though he hung out with her?
Im mad cuz he lied.
p.s She also tried to break us up at the beginning of the realtionship...( they broke up because she cheated on him)
HELPPP!
2007-01-25 14:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
he still has feelings for her, it seems like he might be trying to be buddy buddy with her current boy friend so he can get close to her. if he lies about it then he has something to hid. dump him maby he will get the hint and change and you can get back togather or you will find someone better.
2007-01-25 15:11:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he should have been honest, but cut the boy some slack. He didn't want to tell you because he knew you'd be mad. She brought her boyfriend, what does that tell you? Did he know she was bringing her boyfriend? I bet not. You know that had to be a kick in the teeth. She's not worth the time you spend on being mad at her. She's trash. She always will be. Act like she don't bother you. That will really tick her off.
2007-01-25 15:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate liars, and I wouldn't trust anyone who lies to me. But then again that's just me.
Of course I am ruthless about what I will not tolerate and I very rarely give someone a second chance to mess with me.
However, here is another reason why I think your situation is very suspicious. Do you think maybe she brought her "new" boyfriend over to make him jealous enough to get back with her?
Ask him why he felt it was necessary to lie to you?
If he has nothing to hide then he should be able to tell you the truth and not be covert about who is coming over to visit.
2007-01-25 15:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by fizzents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a hard one. i feel like ur mad bc you lost trust in him and that is what love is based on.
i think you need to have a talk with your bf about his relationship with this ex bc clearly he hasnt made you feel like she isnt a threat. he needs to be completely honost with you about her for you guys to work out. if he tells you that they are just friends and talks to her on the phone in front of you and doesnt lie to you about hanging out with her then there is not anything wrong and you can trust him with her. however, if he is ignoring her phone calls bc your in the room or deleating her text messages then he is hiding it from you bc obviously its not a platonic friendship. you have a reason to be mad bc you cant trust him, and thats the main reason you can be mad, regardless of the ex gf.
2007-01-25 15:17:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be mad that he was not honest with you. He should have been up front and told you what was going on.
2007-01-25 15:09:56 · answer #5 · answered by BetsyLauren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should be mad that is messed up dont allow him to d that
2007-01-25 15:24:04 · answer #6 · answered by lou 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hummmm that odd do you think they were talking about you but then again if you dont trust him you should not be together anyways
2007-01-25 15:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by 1401 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a liar, always a liar
2007-01-25 16:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by lovebugger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋