The reason I 'am asking this question is someone mentioned this in the answers last question. Do you think I should or shouldn't just talk to other guys just for man conversation? Men please give me some feed bak women to.Do you think it's ok for me to do this. I don't talk to any guys,since we have been married. It's been pretty lonely. Serious answers only please help!
2007-01-25 14:41:39 · 14 answers · asked by tellthetruth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yeah, that'll work.
Change positions. If he talked to other women, how happy would you be about that?
Exactly. 3-state killing spree.
Either he has always been this way and you foolishly thought you could change him with your amazing love and walked into the marriage knowing full well he was not a talker (probably the truth) or something crazy like that, or he just changed which means he is some kind of retarded head case. It's a match made in heaven!
Dump him, and marry a guy who talks. Men don't talk to women "friends" they talk to women they want to screw. And you know this.
2007-01-25 15:05:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were your "partner/husband/wife" and i read this question i would be extremely concerned...i think that it is paramount that you establish a means of communication with your husband..it sounds to me that you are ,to some degree, unsatisfied...i can't speak for all guys, but i don't particularly enjoy just sitting around and talking....what i mean by this is that us guys are a little bit differently wired than you gals....if you feel the need to talk to other guys cause they're "guys" ...you probably don't need to be married...if you feel that your husband isn't "displaying" you the attention you desire....maybe you should consider a different approach.Once upon a time i was in a similiar situation and i found that the best "info" was found at a bookstore, in the "relationship" section!!!... i think the most " fair-balanced" info will come from a book at the "bookstore"!!!....good luck
2007-01-25 15:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by michael m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did you two get married if you can't communicate with one another?
Do consider on reading a couple of books called, "The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" and "The Proper Care of Feeding of Marriage".
You shouldn't talk to other men especially to just conversate when you have your husband to talk to. You need to let him know how you are feeling without his company. Do what it takes to win your husband back!
2007-01-25 15:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no! don't mess up your marriage over some pety convo with another man. what i think you should do is start watching tv with your husband, watch the stuff he likes and find out about the sports he likes and strike up convos about that and see how he respones to those type of questions. if he likes football, find out some info on the superbowl. i can tell you this, the chicago bears and the colts are in the superbowl and its the first time two black coaches have been in the bowl together. so that should pop off some convo for about 30min. and the game is feb. 4th
2007-01-25 15:07:13 · answer #4 · answered by ken's princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not like to talk about GIRL stuff such as feelings!...But try to talk to him about sexual positions and as the songs says, "You've got a friend". PIGS!!!( just Kidding)...I am married so I know what you mean. Don't to talk to other men it will only create friction in your relationship, unless you want that drama. Try to find one thing you have in common and talk about that. One thing I learned is don't try to turn your husband into your best friend that's what your best girl friend is for. Don't try to change him, try to influence him to change. Go out to diner and talk about things with him then, nothing to heavy or things that might turn into an argument. Men now know when a Big talk is coming, so flip the script.
2007-01-25 15:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay to talk to other guys but never about personal stuff that you feel so strongly about or about your relationship with your husband unless you're praising him.
you have to be careful about that because you might feel attachment to the guy you're having conversations with. you might not end up cheating physically on your husband... but you most definitely could end up emotionally cheating on him.
women are definitely prone to this because we are emotional beings. if our needs are not satisfied by our spouses, and we seek and get it somewhere else, beware.
emotional cheating is more devastating than physical cheating. you can "get it on" with someone yet not give anything about yourself... but in the case of the former, you are giving him your self... which you had already pledged to your husband.
i suggest going to marriage counselling with your husband. if he doesn't want to go, just try it by yourself first. there might be reasons why your husband is like that. the counselor will be able to give you tips on how to help your husband communicate with you more. give unselfishly and you will reap your rewards.
2007-01-25 15:07:02 · answer #6 · answered by Vanessa 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to make him listen just one good time what you just told us.did you know this or
did he shut down after you got married. these questions need to be answered first in your head. you are smart enough to not cross the line of cheating if you said i do. not to be a smart allic at all but that is how jerry springer got so rich.
2007-01-25 15:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by ktdid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way to the heart is threw the mind. Sharing your thoughts can be informative and tantalizing. Id love to have you as a buddy.
2007-01-26 01:27:08 · answer #8 · answered by tonyflorida2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a form of cheating. cheating is describe as the act of receiving fulfillment in which you would receive from your partner. When you get marry you vow to let no one else into you marriage and that would letting someone else into it
2007-01-25 15:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by LoTs2ShArE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only problem with that is that u may develop feeling's for one of these guy's, and one thing may lead to another and without warning, u may find yourself in a full blown affair u never meant to happen. no it is wrong to do it, will lead u to wrong places.
2007-01-25 15:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋