If you cheated on your spouse a year ago and never did again and know for dang sure that you never will again would you tell them or just put the nightmare behind you and get on with life?
2007-01-25 14:34:53 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No I will never do it again trust me.
2007-01-25 14:46:59 · update #1
get on with life
2007-01-25 14:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by can u ♥ moi? 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should come clean and tell your spouse what you did and take the pleanties that come with it. Why did you cheat in the first place ? .. I mean if you wanted to move on and put it behind you.... you wouldn't be asking this question. You must still feel really guilty about this...Tell them the truth and take your punishment.. its the only way to get over the guilt.
2007-01-25 22:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no good can come of confessing this, might cause your marriage to end, as cheating hurts the one cheated on, if they find out sometimes what was meant to be honest and cleanse someones conscious sometimes backfires, because some just can't accept that the love of their life was with someone else. if it were me i would forgive myself, ask the lord to forgive u and help u, and i would forget it happened. never tell them, it may destroy the love they have for u as this is not a pattern of behavior of yours, it was just a one time mistake. no need to beat yourself up anymore over this mistake, just focus on your marriage and husband, and thank god u made a good decision.
2007-01-25 23:04:31 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes ignorance is bliss. if you told him, what would it accomplish? somethings are also better left unsaid. why hurt him for a mistake you said you regret anyway. if it happened only once and you know it'll never happen again, just let it go and try to forget it, maybe, at some time in your past together, he cheated too and feels the same way you do, no one is without fault.
2007-01-25 22:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by llsnwtsn 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The truth always comes out, it's not fair to your spouse, you are responsible for your own actions, or would you rather live with the quilt all your life......Heavenly Father I ask that you give this person the strenght to do the right thing, for you Lord are righteous and just.....in Jesus mighty name....amen....Jesus loves you....God bless ya
2007-01-25 22:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to hurt your spouse for your poor judgment? Go forth, resolve to sin no more, and keep it to yourself. Telling your spouse may ease the burden of your guilt but will only cause her needless pain.
2007-01-25 22:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Problem here is you could just go on with life....but, things have a way of coming out unexpextedly and if it does...down the road she will still feel the pain as if it just happened.
2007-01-26 13:06:52 · answer #7 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would put it behind you and just pray the your spouse never hears about it, from another, or I might come back and bit you in the butt
2007-01-25 22:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by Bonduesa 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Never bring it up again. The past is the past, now is the time to move forward.
2007-01-25 22:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Skeletons hiding in the closet are usually found after house cleaning. What will you say then?
oops?
Tell her the truth and pray she forgives you. If she doesn't, you deserve it.
2007-01-25 23:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The damage was done already...I'd never do it myself, but I wouldn't want an innocent party to be hurt by anothers actions
2007-01-25 22:47:22 · answer #11 · answered by sassywv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋