How did you feel about this person at first? How do you feel now? What brought about the change? what impact did the transition have on you?
2007-01-25 14:20:14 · 4 answers · asked by foshese my neese 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
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2007-01-25 15:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by sincere12_26 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband changed my life. I know its corny but its true. I've learned alot from him. One of the first things I learned was ' you might as well laugh as cry aobut it' (when things go wrong)
He was raised in the deep south and I in the North so I have learned a lot aobut Southern ways and language which is way different from the North. I have learned to sort of sit back and not worry as much about things. I have learned enduring patience and how to live with physical pain just by watching him deal with his health problems.
How do I feel now? I adore him as my husband but am so proud of the way he takes life and pain. And he is way more socialbe than I. He can walk around town and speak to ppl he doesn't even know. So I respect him alot.. And he climbs under our mobile home to thaw our pipes when they freeze and him with 6 back surgeries!
What brought about the change? God. That is the only answer. God is the only possible answer. When I first met him I didn't like him at all. I had wanted someone in my life but when I first saw him, I looked up and said "oh no, God, please.. NOT HIM! I think God has made me open my eyes up, so I could learn from him.
I see the way he handles life and still worships God w/o complaining aobut his health.
What impact did the transition have on me? I'm not big on change so I didn't like it right away. It has taken me all of 25 years! We had lots and LOTS of 'disagreements' but little by little I did change.
2007-02-01 19:47:09 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs J 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know I understand your question well
my perception of my husbnad changed anyway through his mistreats, first we got married ,he was studying in the university and we didnt have enough money but I never complained ,I encouraged him to work and I would not spend alot of money ..anyway after 10 years he became almost rich but he changed ,I trusted him but he never trusted me ,he refused to give me whatever I need but he spent alot of his money to his friends and his family without even telling me and yet when he faced a problem he came to me to solve it together ...I feel now I cant help him any more ,I cant trust him any more even though I have to live with him because of my kids ..
2007-01-25 23:50:23 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use to think i was great. Now I know I am great.
2007-01-31 11:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by pnn177 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋