Could someone tell me something that will cheer me up?

Question

I'm feelin down and loney. My husband does not have time to give me the attention I deserve. He has a stressful job . Thanks

Answer 1

Sounds like you need some TLC! Go to the spa, get your hair done and your nails done. Then go to Victoria's secret and purchase something more naughty then nice. Wait for your husband in bed and I guarantee he will be all over you like a fat kid on a cookie. Then make him beg for you and the rest should all *** naturally. He needs to know that you need TLC, or maybe just hot sex. It's all good;)

Answer 2

Hi there. First thing you wanted to hear something that will cheer you up, right. YOU HAVE THE POWER TO TAKE OUT OR AT THE LEAST HELP MINIMIZE YOUR HUSBAND'S STRESS. Dear you are his strength. I agree with the the guy who asked you to pick up a hobby. But hey what else could me more cheering than realizing that you can make someone's day. You are lucky that your hubby is taking a lot of stress at his job for both of you and you family. He does not have time to give you any attention. Happens when the workload is killing you. Why don't you start giving him extra attention. He might start reciprocating it. Good Luck...GuruBhai

Answer 3

I know the feeling my husband drives semi over the road and is gone for a week at a time.... So first stop feeling sorry for yourself...All it does is make you and others around you feel worse....then call a close friend or relative and just chat about absolutely nothing.....read a good Janet Evanovich novel they are always good for a laugh....make sure you smile....its the best medicine....and if that doesn't work find a pair of red shoes (or other bright color you don't usually wear) put them on and every time you look down you won't be able to not smile or giggle at your silly feet....now call your husband and tell him you love him... and find a hobby to fill your time...something that makes you happy to take your mind of off loneliness. Just remember you can be in a room full of people and still feel lonely... its not the being alone its the being alone in yourself that gets you...let you out!

Answer 4

You are not in prison. You are not dieing of a deadly disease. You are alive. I KNOW LIFE AND MARRIAGE CAN SEEM LONELY AT TIMES. If you are unhappy in your marriage, decide if it is something you want to stay in. Perhaps, this time will only last a little longer. If the time is unknown, think about if you cand deal with the lonliness. If you love your husband and it's just time, try to get a hobby. If you are unhappy all around, think about doing it on your own. I've learned, life really is too short to be unhappy. Life and tomorrow are promised to no one. You should enjoy life. Life is full of stress and no one lives a fairy tale. However, you should have more days full of laughter, peace and excitement than days of lonliness and distrought. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

Why he should not be acting like this...well maybe your having a bad day and him also...sit him down and tell him how you have been feeling sometimes we all get so busy and tied up that we need to stop slow down some and see what is going on around us...I feel for you cause that happens to a lot of woman just tell your husband you need to have some time with him also he should be able to understand that ...stressful job or not maybe he needs to stop a bit and smell the roses

Answer 6

Try to focus on the positives in your life. For example, if you have job, good health and a house and money in the bank. You can also find ways to keep yourself busy while your husband is busy at work. You could take classes and join groups that interest you. Try reading good, uplifting books also. That might cheer you up.

Always try to focus on the positive or what you have in life instead of what you wish you had.

Answer 7

I'm so sorry for you--I know how you feel in a way--my husband is in Iraq--lonely? Oh yes--but I love him with all of my heart and soul and I will wait for him no matter what--gosh you know he"s been there since last September and I won't see him until this September or October!
I hope this helps you dear--you have your hubby here-why don't you send a card with him--put it in his pocket so he can find it--or mail to his work? Let him know you love him--and by doing special little things like that - he'll see how things are and know you love him--he may make the time you both need. Blessings

Answer 8

The Mommy Test


I was out walking with my 3 year old daughter. She picked up
something off the ground and started to put it in her mouth. I took the item away from her and I asked her not to do that. "Why?" my daughter asked. "Because it's been on the ground, you don't know where it's been, it's dirty and probably has germs" I replied. At this point, my daughter looked at me with total admiration and asked, "Mommy, how do you know
all this stuff? You are so smart." I was thinking quickly. "All moms
know this stuff. It's on the Mommy Test. You have to know it, or
they don't let you be a Mommy." We walked along in silence for 2 or 3 minutes, but she was evidently pondering this new information. "OH...I get it!" she beamed, "So if you don't pass the test you have to be the daddy." "Exactly" I replied back with a big smile on my face.

Answer 9

I can identify with you there, i have been there in the past your not alone. Get him to sit down and really talk open up to one another and tell him how you feel. Do not attack verbally but rather reach him in a loving way. All relationships go through phases and this is one for you. You are special remember that :-) Hang in there. I'm single now however i am going to wait for that right special man.

Answer 10

When I feel this way I try to escape in my writing, or I watch an episode of Oprah or Tyra. And if that still doesn't work then I take out a Maxwell, Brian McKnight, or Donnell Jones CD (they at least sound like they know what a women needs and wants)