Has anyone ever dealt with like a bestfriend that is close to your heart but when they mess up bad and say that it's your fault and he tries to play you crazy like you don't know what you're talking about but you know better and you had, had enough and now you're just unsure of what to do because it's like an off and on thing every time you try to get away they just drag you back in and says i love you and apologizes and the whole nine. Now the person says that they don't want to end the friend ship but you're fed especially women you just fell tired of the childish bull ish
2007-01-25 13:56:54 · 15 answers · asked by Ms. Love hurts 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You have to determine what is good for you. One resolution I have made for my life this year is to get rid of every toxic relationship to my life. If my relationships/friendships are not fruitful and enriching to both of us at the same time, then what's the point?
I don't know if your bestfriend is male/female but in my situation my ex boyfriend was harrassing and wanting us to remain friends. He cheated, had a baby and moved in with some girl that he'd been seeing before me. I had to take a stand. Deep in my heart I still have feelings for him but then I had to determine who do I love more. I love myself too darn much to let he or anyone else make me end up on a psych ward. All the best.
2007-01-25 14:18:41 · answer #1 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should think twice of how much of a good friend this person really is. A good friend wouldnt do this to you, and saying I love you are just words if they say them they should show you also. I think its all about having control on you that they really love. When you tell someone you love them what do you do to make them really feel that you do. Do you try to make them think they are crazy or give them a bunch of bull? If you do everything to make that person feel true honest love then that is what you should expect to get in return and nothing less.
2007-01-25 22:16:09 · answer #2 · answered by nancy m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're in any kind of relationship and it gets to be too much and it takes too much energy it's best for both people to end the relationship.
Why keep running into a brick wall over and over again.....it's kinda silly and it hurts.
2007-01-25 22:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay..First of all you this is more than a friendship and he's obliviously afraid of commitment. The thing is you need to decide whether or not you want to be with him. Let's be honest if you weren't interested I would be answering you right now...But if you do want to be with him,you have to sit him down and discuss this. You need to be firm and let him know that he needs to decide whether or not he wants to be with you b/c your not willing to play games or pretend to be just friends...
2007-01-25 22:13:27 · answer #4 · answered by Queen K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you are bieng playe tell them enoughis enough and youwant out tell htem maybe lunch ev=ery now and then would be nivce but yuo have along road to go to build youre fireindship back don let them talk there way back in because you fee guilty
2007-01-25 22:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he knows which buttons to push.And he will be passive aggresive.Seek counselling or it could get out of control take care don't hesitate for a restraining order.Peace to you
2007-01-25 22:12:20 · answer #6 · answered by walter_nahbexie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you know the answer. Wake up and smell the bulls*** burning, babes.
2007-01-25 22:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's not to know? End the so-called friendship and move on.
2007-01-25 22:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away and find another to be close to.
2007-01-25 22:15:30 · answer #9 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him. Tell him how you feel and that your sick of him doing those kind of things to you.
2007-01-25 22:14:02 · answer #10 · answered by bubblez963 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋