I've liked him for over a year. She has a boyfriend that shes loved for like forever except that they were friends untill last week. She told me she likes my crush too. What should I do. I really really like the guy and I think she doesnt think I dont like him anymore. What do I do? Were 15 by the way!
2007-01-25 13:52:31 · 7 answers · asked by shiningstars 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Friends are harder to find than boyfriends.
If this gf is suddenly interested in a guy she KNOWS you like and have liked for a long time, then she's not really much of a good friend if she's got eyes to snatch him. It ought to be a law that girls don't take other friends' boyfriends. You ought to have a good talk with her and find out EXACTLY what she has in mind for this guy and find out if she's a true friend of yours. Honesty here is the absolute best policy. It's far better to know now what might be in store for you, isn't it?
Oh yeah, if your guy turns out to end up liking your gf, he wasn't all that much you thought he was after all, right? Just move on in that case and find new/true friends.
2007-01-29 06:44:28 · answer #1 · answered by MJ D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had him first, so make sure she knows that you have first dibs on him unless he makes a move on your friend before you (oh man, that would be devastating!). I hope that doesn't happen! If she doesn't back off, you'll have to choose between them. My advice would be - if this girl friend of yours is very close and trustworthy - to stick with her instead of the guy. It'll be hard but worth it in the end, TRUST ME! If you know him, get to know him better in a friendly, non-flirty, genuine way. If you don't, then don't bother with anything until you meet him because then you have no right to claim him first. Hope this helps! ;)
2007-01-26 01:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by mtngrl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you still like him. and you two can like him together. my friends tell each other who we like all the time. and we like the same guys! they are 13 and i am 14
2007-01-25 23:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by sillygoosetonda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her your feelings for him and let him decide who he wants.
2007-01-25 22:09:23 · answer #4 · answered by Froggy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH MY GOD I DON'T KNOW. I'M SO SICK OF ALL OF YOU KIDS COMING ON HERE AND SAYING "HEHE THIS GUY LOOKED AT ME WHAT DOES IT MEAN" OR "LOL THIS GUY LIKE TOTALLY LIKE TOUCHED MY HAND DOES THAT MEAN HE LOVES ME?"
WE WERE NOT THERE. WE DIDN'T SEE WHAT HAPPENED. THEREFORE, WE CANNOT ACCURATELY ANALYZE THE SITUATION.
YOU WANNA KNOW WHAT HE MEANS BY IT? WANT TO KNOW WHY HE DOES IT? THEN ******* ASK HIM YOURSELF!
2007-01-25 23:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Zero 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell her you still like him.... but lets be honest... you've liked him for a year, and done nothing about it.... "you snooze, you lose!!"
2007-01-25 22:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by naenae0011 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe beat her up and say after im sorry and beat her up when she's not looking... thats the way to solve your problem
2007-01-25 22:29:23 · answer #7 · answered by 2121212_switsecape 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋