Typical husband. Get up, gone all day at work, come home at night. At computer desk all day. How can I act more manly and be more attractive to my wife? What actions can I do around the house or what behaviors/habits can I foster that women find manly?
2007-01-25 13:48:52 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Talk to her and leave little "just because" notes around the house for her to find! Take her to lunch. If you have a chance, give her a surprise call just to tell her you are thinking about her. An intelligent man is very attractive and if you smell nice and clean it does not hurt. Offer to help her with the dishes on your day off and focus on just the two of you! She will be eagerly awaiting your return each day and may even have a few surprises of her own!
2007-01-25 14:12:07 · answer #1 · answered by Marie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not sure how your relationship is w your wife but i would want my man to come home and focus on me after work and not the cpu. You should give her more attention. Man up and make decissions by suprising her on a regular day. Instead of doing the usual, tell her you have made plans to get out and have dinner and a movie or something other than what you've been doing after work. At home you can prepare dinner or bring dinner in from a nice restaurant or fast food spot and watch a movie together. You can play a board game together (wal-mart or target). I personally like to play family feud on dvd with my bf. I like to keep alive in the relationship. cant get bored...
good luck
2007-01-25 22:02:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, a man who is too manly is one of my biggest turn offs. I consider myself to be the luckiest woman in the world because I have a husband who does not try to be anything but himself. If that is manly or not manly, it does not matter...it is real. He does nice things for me, like offering to get me something to drink when he gets himself something, taking care of my computer when it acts up and calling me before bed whenever I have to travel out of town. He is honest and loving. He is endlessly patient. He trusts me and makes me feel attractive. These are just some of his good qualities.
2007-01-26 08:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by wisegirl1204 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in relatively good shape (as in, don't let your looks go completely). Appear confident. Women love that. (And what I really meant was really BE confident). Dress stylishly and care for yourself. Help her with chores and do nice things ever so often, like bringing home flowers, etc. It sounds cheesy, but it's the little things that charm a lady. Also, don't let things get routine. Routine kills romanticism. Keep it spicy. Keep the sex life good with new positions and new locations, and shake it up ever so often by going out, etc. Also, be a good listener. Be kind. Etc. All of this is manly.
2007-01-25 23:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by thegirlwantstoknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find it very attractive when my husband helps me out around the house , or even if he offers to fix dinner. I find this manly because he is taking care of things that have to be done. I work outside of the home too, so all help from him is apprecated.
2007-01-25 21:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by evilgrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We like to "communicate" and talk about most anything! We like to here different viewpoints and discuss issues that are probably controversy for most people. We feel we can discuss these issues with our mates without judgment. This "manly" (turn-on) to us! Also, fixing something in the house or even helping with dinner and/or getting kids ready for bed. Re-arranging a room. i.e., the things that don't seem "manly" are the things we love!
2007-01-25 22:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its not necessarily about being manly. Look her in the eye when you talk to her.Look at her like you did when you first met. A small touch during the day sends a powerful message.Ask her what she wants to do for the day, what she wants to eat, etc.. You will get her attention back a hundred times more.
2007-01-25 23:49:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kindness,do the dishes,cuddle and just cuddle sometimes.Do the silly stuff You know she likes instead of scoffing at her.Like I like to watch certain shows I wish my man would just try to watch with me.The worst thing is the closemindedness of men.Be open to a new show or hobby or tv program to enjoy with her.Can you both join a gym and work out together?Thats hot.cook for or with her.that can be fun and sexy.just be open to her thoughts and wishes then indulge them if you know you hates something like laundry do it for her once in a while.Dont take over because that can backfire let her know how much you appreciatte and need her.Tell her that.Women have to hear things just the way they say men are visual women are audio .We want to hear and see at the same time.
2007-01-25 22:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be romantic to and for her and show her love everyday.... you can help her by vacuuming and helping her with dishes and cooking... This is very manly and sexy to us women! Mow the lawn with no shirt on lol or shovel the snow.... Have fun with it... Dance with her and pick her up and carry her to the bedroom sometimes and be romantic go her on the way lol!
2007-01-25 21:59:59 · answer #9 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have to work these days, so I think it takes a little more than just "going to work"! I am more attracted to my husband when he helps me cook, laundry, etc..... sounds crazy, but the more he helps, the more time we have to do "crazy things" that we only see in videos!! :) :)
2007-01-25 22:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋