OK, my husband and I of almost 10 yrs married have decided to divorce, however we've also decided to be "friends with benefits" and a few days ago we were intimate and it was THE BEST we've EVER had, is it because we are technically not together that makes it hotter or what?
2007-01-25 13:37:56 · 10 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm reading some of the answers and wondering if this is a bad idea...
2007-01-25 13:55:10 · update #1
DAMN!! For ever, for ever ever, for ever ever!
2007-01-26 03:31:54 · answer #1 · answered by WhyNotMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. When you were together, the relationship wasn't that good(I assume). So, you were fulfilling those physical needs but knew that the relationship wasn't meant to be. There was likely some guilt on both your parts because of this.
Now, you know that neither one of you expects anything, and it is just a roll in the hay. With the guilt gone, it was more fun. And, then you know you get to leave afterwards, and no one has to sleep on the wet spot!!.
Most couple do this for a period of time, or at least it isn't unheard of.
2007-01-25 13:47:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of couples end up doing this. The stress of the relationship is over and your able to let go. It usually won't last as soon as you both remember why it was you split in the first place. Enjoy it while you can.
2007-01-25 14:01:13 · answer #3 · answered by Say What? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you let the marriage get stale and mundane. Gets boring and routine without change from habit and excitement.
Variety IS the spice of life, especially for the bedroom.
2007-01-25 14:09:10 · answer #4 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question...right on the money. Its because you can do what you want with no strings attached, and you don't have to answer to anyone but yourself! Have fun!
2007-01-25 13:53:55 · answer #5 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds kind of strange and immature. I hope you don't have children. But whatever floats your boat.
2007-01-25 13:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by crazywoman88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh great..."let's get divorced then use one another for our own sexual gratification" What the hell did you get married for in the first place? Friends with benefits equals allowing yourself to be used as a whore, a respiticle for his bodily fluids. Yeah the sex may have been great but what happens to self respect? (Is that a toilet I hear flushing in the background?)
2007-01-25 14:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
you're both free from stress of staying together and let yourselves go sexually, have fun and ejoy while it lasts...
2007-01-25 13:50:12 · answer #8 · answered by singledad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YA IT IS ALL A MIND GAME WE PLAY WITH OURSEVES. JUST THINK HOW GREAT IT WOULD BE IF WE COULD DO THAT ALL OF THE TIME.
2007-01-25 13:51:17 · answer #9 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats aweful. you either need to be married or not and dont do stuff.
2007-01-25 13:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋