2007-01-25 13:00:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
when i got married, i was a virgin. never even got to 2nd base. i'm gonna be completely honest to you about my experience.
the first time my husband inserted his penis, it was sore. really sore. the thing is, he could only push it in a little farther coz i was so tight. we had to try again so it was going nowhere. second time, was really painful but he was able to push it in more. i thought that was it but he didn't even break through the hymen yet. i mustered up my courage and just told him to do it or else we couldn't enjoy having sex with each other soon. he was gentle and kept apologizing for hurting me. when he broke through the hymen, that was really really really painful. i've never been in so much pain ever. i felt like my entire pelvic area was ripped apart. i even screamed from pain.
everyday we do it (husband didn't want to coz he was hurting me but i wanted to get over the pain soon so we both can enjoy it) and the pain subsides more and more. i couldn't get any pleasure from it though.
then suddenly, it felt good. i don't think one can ever find words to describe it. it's an entirely different sensation.
so to answer your question, yes, you will feel it.
but don't get scared. you'll enjoy it. you'll forget the pain soon enough. like i always told my husband, the pain was definitely worth it. not all women feel pain though, so you might not.
sorry, was that too much information? didn't want to scare or disgust anyone... just for information.
2007-01-25 15:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Vanessa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can definitely feel it but I suppose it's all relative to size...his and yours. I don't think I've ever mentioned this to anyone before but for the first 6 months I was numb there during sex. Not even manual help would make it feel better 'caz I couldn't feel that either. I don't think that's typical (I've never asked) but It definitely got better after that. AND it got even better with my now husband - what can I say, he has a gift.
2007-01-25 13:18:06 · answer #2 · answered by Shorty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can feel a penis inside you. And most of the time when you have sex for the first time it is a little painful. Not to be mean but if you can say the word sex you might not be ready.
2007-01-25 13:10:07 · answer #3 · answered by Cristina 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you know, I'm a firm believer that experience is the only true teacher.
If you want more info than that, you need to talk to your mother or another trusted female. Because frankly your line of questions does not speak well for your knowledge base nor your maturity levels.
2007-01-25 13:17:19 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how erect he is and since it's you first time it may hurt a little. I am not trying to scare you, but trust me it gets much much better.
2007-01-25 13:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Jem 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, pain if it is your first time.
2007-01-25 13:10:26 · answer #6 · answered by evilgrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋