What could u forgive more..Your husband hitting you 1 time or cheating on you 1 time? My answer is i could forgive neither.
2007-01-25 12:51:30 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No NOT all men cheat.geez
2007-01-25 12:58:58 · update #1
I totally agree with guernica NOT all men cheat..my husband is wonderful,sweet and loving man and we have been happily married 16 yrs and i know he would NEVER hurt me like that..I think the women who say all men cheat are the ones who have been cheat on.
2007-01-25 13:03:01 · update #2
neither both also are horrible~!
2007-01-25 13:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by Vani R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If either was to happen to me he would be hitting the road. I would not put up with any kind of bull like that out of a man. I am married for ten years and can't see why a man would cheat on his wife or why in the world he would think he could lay his hands on her. If he has done it once then he is more then likely to do it again. My sister is in the same situation. I would get out before it gets worst. Good Luck
2007-01-25 13:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by browneyes79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I went through both with my 2nd EX husband. He hit me and I was afraid to leave him, His one hit, turned into very severe abuse. And there is no reason a man should hit a woman, None whatsoever...That is abuse and it is wrong. I know its hard for some women to leave, because they are scared, and this lowers their self esteem, but No, hitting is wrong.
Ok Cheating, My 2nd EX cheated on me also, Cheating is not right, and I wouldnt tolerate that either..
Why be with a man, who cannot dedicate his entire self to you? Ive been through both and that is why I call him My EX.
You can go out and find a wonderful man, who will treat you right..I did!
2007-01-26 03:17:26 · answer #3 · answered by ~Annette~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Studies show that once a man hits you, he is 99% likely to hit you again. Don't forgive and forget--just get out. My first husband was a creep that gave me broken ribs. Just get out. After 5 years of taking time to put my head on straight--I met a marvelous man and we have been together for 24 years.
2007-01-25 13:00:08 · answer #4 · answered by redunicorn 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have been married for 32 years and never had any of those.
I think you are just asking a general question for all married woman...so here is mine.
I could forgive a hit more than I could cheating and once would be my limit.
2007-01-25 13:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by jeeccentricx2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me too. If he ever raised his hand to me then he had better not even fall asleep. As for cheating, sorry, go be with your "lover" cause he made vows that were supposed to be forever. I am a woman with my own mind and I do not take any crap from my man. We are in this together and abuse or cheating are not part of it. He understands how I feel about this because we are open and honest with eachother. I agree with you totally.
2007-01-25 13:02:57 · answer #6 · answered by looloo1122 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd walk if either happened.
And ALL MEN do not cheat. That's bullsh*t.
The statement "All men cheat" is disproved by "One man does not cheat." None of the men I dated nor my husband have ever cheated on me, so if you're running into a lot of men who cheat on their wives, it might be time to try dating in a different demographic where cheating isn't so socially acceptable.
2007-01-25 12:56:21 · answer #7 · answered by Guernica 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i could not and would not forgive either. i have been in both situations. no not all men cheat and i was lucky enough to find a man who would never do either of those. yes it took along time to find him but better late than never.
2007-01-25 14:24:38 · answer #8 · answered by ladybug_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think physical abuse should be tolerated. I have already been in that kind of relationship and it rarely ever gets better. At least an infidelity can be worked through depending on the circumstances. It all depends on the situation and each woman is different.
2007-01-25 13:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Cristina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sucks to be cheated on, but a one time thing can be forgiven. It all depends on how how much you love him and whether or not you feel your marriage is worth saving.
Physical abuse? I don't think I could forgive that...
2007-01-25 13:00:53 · answer #10 · answered by ~StepfordWife~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree... to a point.
Forgiving and FORGETTING are two entirely different issues.
Re: hitting - in my first marriage, I was abused badly. After I married my second husband, I told him "if you ever hit me, you'd BETTER knock me out and RUN - because when I get up, you're going to have HELL to pay!" LOL... fortunately, this relationship isn't like THAT.
Good luck to you!
2007-01-25 12:59:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋