The question isn't if I approve but how do you feel about him and the marriage deep within your heart and soul? How long have you know him? Do you have common interests and belief systems as well as a common philosophy of life? Do you really truly love this man or is it lust? Those are questions only you and you alone can answer. As for your family just telling them the truth is the only way. They will love you no matter what decision you have made. Marriage isn't just about romantic love but a deep commitment to one another that lasts a lifetime despite differences and faults.
2007-01-25 13:05:48
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answered by jamkat239 3
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It will be over in two years. Marriage is the most important decision to make in your life. You got married on an impulse without trying to prevent problems before they happen.
The sad thing is that you won't understand until it is too late for your marriage. This is exactly why 2/3 of all marriages end in divorce.
2007-01-25 15:03:57
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answered by eric l 6
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Hell yeah! That's great. Sounds so romantic. Good luck!! Just tell your family straight away and get it out of the road so it's not hanging over your head and bringing you down.
2007-01-25 12:59:38
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answered by biancajh 5
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Those sound like the characteristics for adopting a dog. Start shopping for a divorce attorney to get an annulment as soon as possible. And get a membership Dumbass Anonymous.
2007-01-25 13:01:31
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answered by freshoutofjail 1
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But how well do you know him? Couples should live together for at least 1 year before getting married.
Got married on the fly? Don't expect it to last.
2007-01-25 12:57:39
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answered by Anonymous
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yeah...he is romantic,cute,funny,smart and sweet but..how long have you know him...
probably your parents will be mad but as time goes by..they will approved...gud luck
2007-01-25 13:02:14
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answered by aida j 1
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A friend of mine did somethign like that...she turned out to be a stalker type & he had the hardest time getting rid of her. Be nice to your family, you'll need them when you get divorced and need help getting yourself back together again!
2007-01-25 14:23:42
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answered by thekittiesinthehood 2
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lol... honey, it's your life... our approval means nothing. Have fun! who know? just know this... if problems occur, don't have kids until they are resolved... last thing you need is something that will only make things worse.
2007-01-25 12:57:06
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answered by Jamie 5
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Who can say? I'm worried about the "but??????" part of your question though - why is that coming up already? Maybe YOU don't approve?
2007-01-25 13:00:23
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answered by totrisha 2
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I mean, I can keep my mouth shut about it,
That's what the ball gag is for, isn't it?
2007-01-25 14:22:46
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answered by Anonymous
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