I was with my ex for 4 and a half years and we ave a beautiful little together,he cheated on me a few times but we always got back together after bout mth of me finding out,then i found out my mum had cancer and was very upset as u can imagen and went to tell, i didnt want simpathy just a cuddle,which i didnt get,neway he said he would *** round to mine that nite, ha didnt,didnt ring,and wouldnt answer his fone,for 4 days,and i found out the nite i found out bout mum,the nite he was meant to *** to mine he stayed at another womans house.i was so angry and hurt and i finished with him.but after everything i still love him very much. Now6mths on he wants me back,says he loves me very much and will never hurt me again,i would love to b with him and the fact i have a child with him makes me think mayb it worth giving it 1 more go as a family,but i really dont know if im just setting myself up for huet again or if it really could b the happy ever after i want.wot do u think?wot should i do?
2007-01-25 11:33:59 · 10 answers · asked by kim h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Kim women are born to have a family mentality. You can't make someone love you. You do know that he don't love you, don't you? Love don't hurt, don't lie, don't boast, not proud or puffed up, love don't make you protect your heart it has your heart in a safe place, well guarded, Love is there when you need it to be. I've learned once you let someone get away with something, then they are gonna keep doing it. I know you are thinking... Maybe this time it will be different, maybe he has changed. No what will happen, you won't trust him and each time he step out the door you are gonna have those thoughts to flood your mind, that won't be healthy for the relationship. If you are away from him the best thing for you to do is stay away from him. It's OK to remember a person you love, you can't help what your mind wonder, but you can change the fact that he uses you as a door mate and you want to be careful about him being with different women. Why should you die for loving him?
2007-01-29 22:37:03 · answer #1 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree Scoundrel. you are able to provide a minute or 2 for a poorly wound watch, yet 7 minutes in no longer proper. And your good judgment is sweet on direction. by potential of the 4th date it is going to ba an hour you'd be waiting searching like the twerp. sturdy call my chum. I tend to be very stingy even as it includes second opportunities. If it change into significant to her she might want to were there 10 minutes early, no longer 7 minutes late. i does no longer supply this lady yet another danger to leave you status there. leave her the position she is.... dumped.
2016-10-17 03:22:42 · answer #2 · answered by hocking 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have "SUCKER" tattooed on your forehead!!! He knows you will put up with anything once he says he's sorry. Well, he is the sorriest excuse for a man that I have ever seen. How many more times will he cheat before he finds one that he wants to hang with more than you. Then he will cheat on her too! Wake up and smell the coffee! He is a no win proposition. Collect the child support and move on to someone who values you!
2007-01-26 15:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by casurfwatcher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many chances are you going to give him before you wake up and realize that he is going to keep doing this because you let him get away with it.
He obviously doesn't give a damn about you cause when you needed him most he was bumping uglies with another woman. You have let him bring you down so much and you are to naive to see that he is just using you. You need to just leave him alone and work on bettering yourself for you and your child.
2007-02-01 19:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by luscious0071 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I would leave him alone. He sounds like my ex. I told my ex I had cancer and he dumped me the next day. He ran off to sleep with other women continually. He was a narcissist.
Leave him and don't look back. Do yourself a favor.
2007-02-01 14:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by elanabutcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, once a cheater always a cheater. There are plenty of fish in the sea, find a good one. Take care Heather
2007-01-31 14:05:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was capable of hurting you that bad already, what makes you think he is not capable of doing it again? Because he says he is sorry or he has changed? Once certain lines have been crossed its pretty obvous what he is capable of, are you willing to let him hurt you again? I wouldnt be.
2007-02-02 05:03:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think you answered your own question dear .He's shown no commitment or responsibility twoards you or your child.Sounds as though he is in lust not love.Move on with youir life & find someone who will commit to YOU.
2007-02-01 07:47:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up darling and dump this useless piece of ****. Erase him out of your life and you will surely meet someone who really likes you.
2007-02-02 02:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by Zimone78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him
2007-01-30 03:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by s2or3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋