I have a problem in my family. My Cousin is 12 and wants to start having sex with her B/friend. I think girls today are growing up to fast they dress to revealing and are getting into sex ie mastiurbation at an early age smoking drinking etc. ADVICE PLEASE!!!!
2007-01-25 11:27:08 · 8 answers · asked by Happy 07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thats definately a problem but definately reality. Kids these days are way more advanced than 10 years ago.
Well, apparently, your cousin confided this information to you, which means she trusts you. So you cant betray her trust. Telling her parents or something like that wont help. The only thing you can do is advise her not to until she is older and more mature. Tell her that you know she may be having feelings, but she should have enough respect for herself to wait until she is in love with a man.
After advising her not to do it......she either will or wont. But foremost.....tell her to be safe. To purchase condoms and dont rely on him to have them. Tell her to protect herself and if she is gonna do an adult act, then she needs to be responsible. Her life would be ruined if she got pregnant at 12. Lord help her.
If shes determined to do it, she is gonna. So just teach her to be safe. Thats about all you can do if you cant talk her out of it. GOod luck
2007-01-25 11:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh gee yep thats is a bit too young, i have 3 girls my youngest being 12 and i know for sure that she is not at that stage yet thank god. Perhaps you should just explain the ins and outs of sex and say that it doesnt mean that she is not as cool as her mates if she is still a virgin. You can only do your best and try and get her to trust your ideas etc. At the end of the day if she is gonna go off and do it anyway it dosent matter what any one says. But at least you would have tried, (i woudnt go to her parents either that i think would be a bad move)
2007-01-25 11:33:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly, most people i know have a few beers at night after work. i don't think your a alcoholic, but if you feel you may have a drinking problem then you are right to seek advice from the doctors, well done for wanting to sort it out. regarding sleeping, well i would say try some over the counter sleeping pills, but if it's alcohol your drinking, i don't think it will be a good idea. Have you thought the alcohol could be why you can't sleep, you are aware you haven't had a drink and thats why your tossing about so much in your bed. have you tried going to bed early, reading for a hour or so or watching tv in bed, that way your relaxed at least? hope the doc sorts you out!
2016-05-23 23:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes kids nowadays are far more advanced than we were.its sad,there being taken advantage of, being raped and-used for pornography,and if they don't do it , they lose there boyfriend, and if they do, there cool and popular, its gonna be hard to talk her out of it.. the only suggestion i can give right now, is maybe some church, or a youth group.a group that vows to stay a virgins until they marry,i know that ones kinda-gone years ago, but there are some out there, you just gotta look.ask her what will she do if its awful and he breaks up with her and tells everyone shes easy?i don't know scare her, sorry i dint have more.
2007-01-25 11:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! She is really young. You need to talk to her with her mother present also. But don't try to tie her down, because she is sure 2 get wild..She needs you guys help, and fast. You need to tell her what she's getting herself into.
2007-01-25 11:38:53 · answer #5 · answered by S4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok the situation is this someone needs to talk to her mom and let her know the situation. then she will probaly go from there and then she needs a realization check for real
2007-01-25 11:33:14 · answer #6 · answered by msmelissahernandez28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well Sure Let Her If she gets pregnet it is her fault
2007-01-25 11:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by G.Willams 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it does seem to be happening alot earlier huh?
2007-01-25 11:36:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋