Did you ever have a seperation during your marriage?

Question

My husband and I filed for divorce and were talking about getting back together. During our seperation my husband kept our house and I know slept with at least one women there. Would you move back into the house? Or do you think it would be best to start fresh and move?

Answer 1

This is actually a good sign that he wants to work on the marriage and try to rekindle things with you... I would not move right back with him until we went to marriage counseling and start working through things together and i saw signs of things getting better... If nothing works or changes no matter what you do to try and make it work then and only then do you divorce and start fresh as you call it... I just feel that you should give your marriage you are in now another chance and maybe even a fresh start for you and your marriage. Date your husband and get to know him all over again. This will be fun and an adventure for the both of you!

Answer 2

I have under no circumstances extremely seen this technique artwork, I have infact seen many couples try it because it form of sounds like a respectable component to do yet genuinely my thoughts are , couples strive against its unhappy yet authentic once you provide up and walk away without staying the direction and extremely operating for it and also you "nonetheless go with to be with one yet another" frequently someone isnt being all that straightforward which ability there are outdoors supplies telling you its a good concept, in case you sense you go with to bypass out and spot were you're occurring your life thats fantastic yet dont say the position we are going because you at the on the spot are not sticking round to verify I only dont imagine time aside is the reply per chance Marriage counciling or own ought to artwork better there is not any such component as a good destroy someone will be harm

Answer 3

Yes I have. red flag: why is he now wanting to get back together? because he has had his fun? If he is really sincere, then I would definitly move back in. It's your house too right? BUT...it may be very hard for you to be there with the knowledge that he was with someone else. If it is hard for you...then get a new place together, with a new bed. It's ok, and if he wants to really work on it, then he will. Best of luck :)

Answer 4

Why not move back into your house? It's the home you two made for each other. Whether or not you want to repeat the bad history of that home is up to you. You both need to change and work on your marriage.

Answer 5

Start fresh and move on!!!!!!!!! BUT you need to see a counselor before you move in and schedule regular sessions with the counselor.
Ask your husband if he is willing to do this. If he wants you he will!

Answer 6

if he slept with two thousand in the house when you were separated---what damn difference does it make----if you and him are serious about getting back togeather----let your true feelings control the situation----not what you think other people will think--life is what you make it---the love was there once---if you care for him --i;m sure it;s there now---only you -can make this work--- nobody here or anywhere else has to live your life or your feelings-----good luck-- god be with you.

Answer 7

you didnt mention if you had kids together, or how long you were married, if things were pretty good and you separated because of a stupid fight,, maybe a second chance is called for.. if for violence,, then take the house from him..depends on what mitigated the divorce

Answer 8

did he ask you to go back?? if he did not then dont think about it.
if he did, maybe worth giving it a try,
sleeping with another woman means nothing, only physical satisfaction.

Answer 9

Yes and we never reconciled. Now I am divorced.

Answer 10

i wouldn't move with him period once a cheater always a cheater