2007-01-25 10:57:21 · 3 answers · asked by df a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is tough at best. My partner, when we married was not ill. But, 14 years into the marriage he became chronically ill. His record is usually every 3 months he is in the hospital for about a week. We have doctor visits 2 or 3 times a month. We constantly have plans changed--because he became ill. It is hard to plan any vacations, long term. Your social life often revolves around hospital waiting rooms. It is hard on the partner, the spouse, and especially on kids. BUT, if you really love the person, then there is nothing in the world better, because every single minute you can spend with them is precious.
2007-01-25 11:07:26 · answer #1 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good to know, that you know that she or he is chronically ill person.
Im not sure about that illness, but any illness in the world, if you marry a person with cancer for example, you have to accept the person "as is", there is not a fixxing proceses or something like that,
He or she can fix him/her self.
I you marry a person , you must love the person with all goods and bads, been support for this person is very important ( illnes or no illness) in the case of illnes probably you may have to get educated about ,. like is she or he has a cancer , then go to groups where teach you about, look for spycology help, in other words look for all your resources to get to know how can you help.
its important the acceptance to that person, thats called LOVE = respect+ acceptance.
2007-01-25 19:10:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nikita . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very hard. It is a true test of love and commitment on your part. But if you both pass that test, you will know you have the most wonderful love. Unfortunately, you won't know if you pass that test until you've tried. Good luck!
2007-01-25 19:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by Vivian D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋