say you are both 25 years old, he had cancer but now its in remission (not cured), should you take a chance and marry him knowing that cancer could come back..help please
2007-01-25 10:56:06 · 11 answers · asked by df a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes! Love has to be in sickness and in health, but I might carry a large insurance policy in case.
2007-01-25 11:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, how do you know that you won't find out tomorrow that you have cancer or other medical problems. Love is accepting a person with all their problems. If you are not a care giver type person then maybe you won't be able to handle it. You need to make up your mind if you are in the relationship for better or worse or if you are out.
2007-01-25 16:30:25 · answer #2 · answered by sexyladyinak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It shouldn't matter if this person's limbs are falling off, if you love him than nothing no matter what it is should get in the way. If you truly love him then you would want to be with him especially during this difficult time in his life. This is a big decision you have to make, if you are in love with this man than there is nothing you can't handle but if not, then this is when you realize it. How much does he really mean to you. Do you think he would do the same if you were in his shoes?
2007-01-25 11:13:18 · answer #3 · answered by impression722 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u marry someone it should be because thats ur soulmate. if this person is ur soulmate why would u not want to spend as much time as u could with them. nothing in life is guranted i mean u could marry someone else who is 100% health and they can get hit by a bus the next day. we dont know what will happen tomorrow so do what makes u happy today!
2007-01-25 11:04:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's stopping you? Yes! Marry him! Do you want to be with him through thick and thin? Quit being selfish and scared and just go for it! Happiness can be a huge cure in so many ways.
2007-01-25 11:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, you better be strong emotionally, strong character, with a very strong family behind you. You must prepare for the worst and expect the worst, but pray for a normal life. What do I mean prepare for the worst? Emotionally you will be sapped. Financially YOU will be responcible for his unpaid medical bills. Your life can't have a job involved when he turns bad. YOU will be his nurse maid 24/7.
2007-01-25 11:07:00 · answer #6 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love that person and want to be with him till the end yes marry him but if you can't be there for him in sickness and health till he may die my answer is no if you can't be for him while he is sick my mom died from cancer when i was 18 i stayed with her till the end im 58 now
2007-01-29 08:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love and want to be with him then why not go for it???? I would if i loved the person and felt they were the right one for me and for my life.... I would take the chance if it were me.
2007-01-25 11:12:32 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes marry quit acting like a bad person for even questioning to not wed due to his illness thats ****** up walk down that aisle with him
2015-05-12 15:48:07 · answer #9 · answered by elizabeth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! I'm not convinced that you're really in love or you wouldn't have to ask that question. HE deserves to have someone who doesn't feel that way about him. I think he's not the person for you and you're not the person for him.
2007-01-25 12:43:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋