i found out yesterday that my friend is a cutter and i need some advice i dont want to intrude but she could really be hurting herself. i dont want to tell my family cause they would tell hers and that would probably hurt her even more. i just dont know what to do can anyone help?
2007-01-25 10:50:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well sweetie try to talk to her about it, if she decides that she still wants to do it, then tell her parents. Even if she says she won't do it, tell her parents. Because she thinks by cutting herself it is giving her a way out of something. They create pain to see how much they can endure. If she accidentally cuts herself in the wrong way, then she could kill herself or hurt herself in which you are going to feel responsible. If you love her tell her parents they can deal with it and get her the help that she needs otherwise you'll have one dead friend. Good luck sweetie. TELL HER PARENTS BABE, it can't make anything worse.
2007-01-25 11:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her parents know. There's no way she's going to get better unless they find out. If she were your child, wouldn't you want to know?
1-800-DON'T-CUT Is a hotline for cutters
SOMEONE TO TALK ABOUT IT TO
Talk Zone 1-800-475-TALK Peer Counselors
Teen Help Line 1-800-400-0900 Help Line For Troubled Teens
Teen Hot Line 1-800-747-8336 Hot Line For Troubled Teens
VOICES In Action, Inc. 1-773-327-1500
Youth Development International 1-800-HIT-HOME (448-4663) Youth Crisis Hotline
National Crisis Line 1-800-334-4357 Crisis Help Line
2007-01-26 00:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by The Notorious Doctor Zoom Zoom 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say talk to your friend and see if she will open to you. Help her with her problem. You both can look up places so she can find a way to help her with this problem.
Here is a website that might help you out a little bit.
2007-01-25 18:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Ashlie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to get a way to get her occupied. Because she will get seriously sick!!!!! Like one of them harmful disease.. So just talk her out of it. Ask her questions and if she is troubled then try telling her another way to take care of her problems. Dont force her to tell you whats wrong she'll feel really weird and uncomfertable.
2007-01-25 19:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by SuWizzle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're still in school, you may want to try talking to the counseling office. I know you probably don't want to "blow her in", but this is a serious matter and they have professionals that can get her the help she needs.
2007-01-25 18:58:45 · answer #5 · answered by Angie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not sure wat kind ov cutter u r tlkn about like da one dat just cuts classes or like actually herself but if its herself den i can give u an answer bcuz i knows friensd who have
cutting can lead to sumtn serious and it shoudl b dealt wit sumtn now it is best dat u elt her fmaily know bcuz she would b considered physco i no dat is not wat u would liek to dink ov ur friend but dat is da ryt ding to ding to do dere is hospitals for dat and stuff were dey deal wit dat ... trust me she will dank u one day and she could just b ruining her lyf ryt now and if u dont do anyding den wen it will b too late she will wnat to stop herself bcuz cutting can b an addiction and den wen she would want to stop we will not b able to ... just help her now while u still can
2007-01-25 19:01:36 · answer #6 · answered by ~J3N~ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was i cutter too just talk to her a lot about it i am going to stress this last part DO NOT TELL HER PARNETS UNTILL SHE TELLS THEM FRIST it only causes trouble
2007-01-25 18:58:42 · answer #7 · answered by sire fartness(i'm a girl) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she needs help....you might talk to a counselor at school....this is a serious thing and the sooner you get help for her the better....
2007-01-25 18:57:37 · answer #8 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋