I am a married woman who believes my husband is looking for other women. What can I do to keep my husband in my bed and not someone else's?
2007-01-25 10:24:51 · 8 answers · asked by ms_pixie77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Understand that your husband's itch for running around more than likely has nothing to do with you. I can give you several many reasons I believe this may be happening however, I'll get to solutions instead.
a) Give him attention
b) Try some new things in the bedroom
c) Dress up cute & sexy for no reason
d) Take control at the appropriate times
e) Feed him
Good luck!
2007-01-25 10:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by DooWopKid 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you are in a position where a married woman would never like to be.
I am not married, but what I think is that men do not want their women to be good in bed only. They go for women whom they find attractive and strong both from mind and body.
If your husband is looking for someone else,as you think, try to first make sure this is a reality and only then, if you feel, speak to him but not directly.
Ask him what does he prefer to have in you for having a great relationship and to fulfill his desires.
What I believe is- this is a situation where you have to handle it together and if you involve others in this, the matter can get worse, as it can hurt the feelings and sentiments of either one or both of you.
So,keep patience and look for answers within you and your partner.
2007-01-25 18:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by pooja_negi27 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First and foremost, LISTEN to him. If he feels you are tuning him out or not paying attention, he will look for someone who will. In the process of listening you can filter out what are some legitimate points and what are silly complaints.
Talk through the problems and come to solutions TOGETHER. Show him that you want to be with him by doing small things like cooking a favorite meal or doing something else he likes. DON'T TAKE HIM FOR GRANTED or someone else will show him the appreciation he is looking for from you.
Your question is a perfect follow up to one of mine, thank you for asking it!
2007-01-25 18:56:53 · answer #3 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all it is not your job to keep your husband happy. It is only your job to be the best person and wife you can be. If he wants to roam, it is his problem. You should have told him early in your relationship that if he ever put it in someone else you were walking away. The choice is his. No second chances. That would have set the ground rules. There are always going to be prettier,younger, smarter, available woman out there to tempt the men. It is our duty to choose a man who cherishes us, despite the temptations. Get a grip honey and stand up and be a real woman. You are worth it.
2007-01-25 18:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by lily 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Treat him like a human being. Hugs, kisses, I love you's, words of encouragement, support, appreciation, sex, and just being there for each other. If he's not happy at home, he won't come home. Are you a naggy and selfish wife that thinks that they can treat their husband's like crap and still demand respect? I hope not, but if you are you have some serious changing to do.
2007-01-25 18:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i agree with recordcap. granted im not having this problem but you should try his suggestions. i dress up for my old man for no reason all the time. he loves it.
2007-01-25 19:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by ladybug_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Handcuffs!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 18:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give head and swallow!
2007-01-25 18:32:13 · answer #8 · answered by oldsrocketbaby 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋