my friend came over and was helping me with my hurt ankle, she helped prop me up and got me ice and then she wiped the hair out of my face and I got that Tingly feeling all over. She leaned down and kissed my forehead and I wanted to grab her and kiss her and other things...... Oh wow and now all I can thing about is feeling her lips on mine.... *sigh*
What should I do???? Should I tell her this is how I felt and I may lose my friendship or just keep it in and hope I never get these feelings again for her!
2007-01-25 09:50:53 · 14 answers · asked by misty d 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Misty-
I would say something......
I did and I felt so much better. We did mess around after that... Which was awesome and she is still my friend! :o)
She will love you no matter what if she is a true friend.
Good luck Honey.
2007-01-25 11:22:57 · answer #1 · answered by poohgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was just thinking today about a young guy I was kind of friends with long ago. One day we were fooling around and when I brushed his dark, curly hair away from his ear, a hot, burning feeling went from my hand all the way through my body. I felt the same way then that you're describing, but didn't do anything about it and was afraid to tell him how he made me feel. We didn't see each other much after that and I don't know whatever happened to him, so what did I have to lose by telling him?
Which is to say, YES! Show her! Tell her! Go for it! Make it a "secret confession", but tell her. Good luck!
2007-01-25 10:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had that feeling before, too. It sucks because you can't get it out of your head.
I wouldn't say anything, just yet. Wait and see if anything else cums up.
Say the both of you are having some fun and drinking. Maybe wait till you have a few cocktails in ya and the just say something about it. Not real direct, but kinda just amatter of fact like. Becuse if she is not thinking that way then you might really freak her out and then she may avoid you.?...
2007-01-25 10:06:37 · answer #3 · answered by hot red stang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um...im thinking that maybe you should take a chance and tell her. The fact that she kissing u on your head and wiping the hair outta your face mite mean she's sending you signals herself. Or is she just touchy feely like that. I would tell her. Gently. If you 2 are that good of friends, there should be no risk of damaging the friendship. Good luck! & pay no attention to the a.sshole above me. He's just jealous cuz u arent givin him none.
2007-01-25 09:59:19 · answer #4 · answered by Raynebow_Diva 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her. Yeah you're risking alot by telling her but you're taking a risk by not telling her. Chances are you'll gain alot more than just a friendship and if your worst fears come true then it's better to know now. Don't lock away your feelings. Go for it and Don't Look Back!
2007-01-25 10:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't really a decision that anyone but you can make.
I had a close friend that I fell in love with, and it killed me to stand next to her every day, our arms brushing, my heart fluttering. But she had a boyfriend. So I didn't say anything. Now I have moved away and we don't see each other anymore. I wish I had have said something, though now she is married so I guess it may not have mattered. I just wrote a song about it instead.
2007-01-25 10:00:28 · answer #6 · answered by IamBatman 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm like that too. i think it's just because it would be different, it's foreign ground to us women, (most of us) and that's why we're so curious. when me and my bf's get drunk we always end up dirty dancing with eachother at the bar, and sometimes even kissing....it's fun. me and one of my other friends use to give eachother back massages, and when she would massage lightly around my neck, i would get butterfly's and goose bumps on my skin. it feel so much better when a girl does it for some reason.
2007-01-25 10:01:25 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you think she's a lesbian/bisexual?
Have you tried asking around to see if anyone else might know?
If you think she might be, than you might want to try the "joking around maneuver" and see what happens and if she's actually into you?
2007-01-25 10:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know her better that anyone on here is it possible that her kissing you on the forehead was her way to let you know that she has feelings for you?
2007-01-25 10:07:53 · answer #9 · answered by joe s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, Girl.
Sounds like shes giving you hints.
2007-01-25 11:26:01 · answer #10 · answered by larry m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋