My GF talks to men all the time she goes out. Why? Why am I not good enough for her? Is she ready for any relationship? She makes so many excuses about loving to dance and needs to go out. What is that about?
2007-01-25 09:49:45 · 8 answers · asked by Jason G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she is not mature enough for marriage right now, she likes the attention the other guys give her, due to low self worth. she gets a rush whenever one of these guys pays her attention. if she needs to dance and go out than she is far from ready to marry, as when we marry we don't need the attention of other men to make us feel good about ourselves. if u marry her u will be in a constant battle with her, as u will expect her to stay home and be a wife, and she just won't be able to. u got the wrong girl for what u are hoping to accomplish here.
2007-01-25 10:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are getting some really good advise here, I hope you're listening. Go out with her, dance with her, flirt with her, leave her notes on the fridge.
At every age and married or not, women want men to show an interest in them, we want to feel desirable. Make sure you desire her and remind her often.
Good luck to you and to her.
2007-01-25 18:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by Arlosmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First: perhaps she loves to dance and go out. Why aren't you joining her? Do you not enjoy those things? If not, you're incompatible in that way, and it's not fair to ask her to curtail those activities -- either let her have her fun, or get a girl who likes to stay home and watch TV with you.
Second: who doesn't like attention? She goes to clubs, guys hit on her, she enjoys it and flirts with them, then comes home to you. Unless you think she's cheating on you, what do you care? If you DO care, then again, you're not compatible.
2007-01-25 18:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I have been married over 20 years and she still likes to be hit on. She is heavy set, and in her 40's, but attracts men like flies. I guess some women are that way. I am usually able to look past it...
2007-01-25 19:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by mark m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you aren't giving her the attention that she needs...talk to her and tell her how you feel...ask her what you can do to make things better and keep her happy.
2007-01-25 18:01:09 · answer #5 · answered by mommy_2_liam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youguessed it she's not ready for a one on one relationship yet.
2007-01-25 18:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why aren't you going out with her?
2007-01-25 17:59:57 · answer #7 · answered by LOS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE NEEDS TO NOT GET MARRIED.
2007-01-25 19:08:17 · answer #8 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋