well there's this really close friend we HAD and now she is saying she wants to sit with us every other day. she and on the days she's not siting with us she sits with ppl she said she HATES. what should i do?
A.) ditch her also?
B.) just go along
c.) sumthing else. plz describe
2007-01-25 09:25:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
uhhh .. talk to her .. ? it's like she's using you when her other friends dont wanna talk to her or w/e. it`s like your her second choice. ya get me`?
2007-01-25 09:31:10 · answer #1 · answered by irreplaceable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably just broadening her horizons. She may well have found that these people she said she hated, were in fact quite nice once she got to know them. But regardless that is something that she has to figure out for herself.
As long as she is nice to you when you are together then it should not be a problem. There is no rule in life that you have to have exclusive rights to a person and their time. The person can have many friends and it is a lesson for you to let them do so and try not to judge or be jealous. Your friend may well find that she doesn't have much in common with these people and ditch them, or she may find that she has moved on from her friendship with you and spends more time with these other people. This happens in life and is something that you have to learn to deal with as you will have many friends in life as your life changes.
So my advice would be to go with the flow as long as the friend is still treating you nice.
2007-01-25 09:34:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about d) none of the above. If you are as good of friends as you guys say you are you should know what is bothering. Ask hey what's up why have you been acting so different? Find out what's bothering her so that you can help her with it like a true friend. Remember, to have a friend you must be a friend. If you are being "her friend" and isn't being "your friend" maybe your friendship with her just isn't working out.
2007-01-25 09:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Loaha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt consider what shes doing "ditching." she has just made other friends besides u and ur friends. she has lots of friends now so shes taking turns sitting with u and them. i would just be supportive of the new friendships shes gained.
2007-01-25 09:30:50 · answer #4 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C. Just ask her what's up. Or ask her to come to your house after school or someting and if she acts like she is too cool, then just forget about her. She is just being stupid and you are too good for her.
Good Luck!
2007-01-25 09:43:43 · answer #5 · answered by Froggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk 2 her about it. Ask her wats goin on. If she acts like a biotch, get new friends.
2007-01-25 09:30:07 · answer #6 · answered by CurlsWithBrains 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sumething elze!!! believe me she's gonna come and bite u in the back of the butt. these people are most of the time ppl who wanna get popular.
2007-01-25 09:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by awicamel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a cooler friend and show her you don't care. She'll feel jealous and come back.
2007-01-25 09:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is there something for you "to do"? You don't control her actions. Enjoy her when you're hanging out, and leave her be when you are not.
2007-01-25 09:31:38 · answer #9 · answered by csucdartgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
c. well that happens to me i sometimes ignore it or talk to her.so however u feel ignore it or talk to ur friend and if she doesnt listen she iz not a good friend.
2007-01-25 09:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋