im having a hard time to stop crying. im so depressed ='[?

Question

my bf and i both agreed to take a break (we are both sophmores in college and have been dating for over 2 years) he needs to focus on school he is just overwhelmed ith things right now. and so he said we soudl take a break. i agreed. this was last night and its really just now hittign me that he wont hardly be around anymore. we talked on the phone everyday and everything. i just called into work cause i feel liek such a mess right now.. i cant stop crying. i asked him if he still oved me and he kept saying "i dont have to answer that. i dont have to love you" which jusr hurts me even more. he said yes he still does. and last night he said theres a good chance of gettign back together. out relationship was good. we got into a few arguements here and there but the relationship was fine. we have great communication skills and alot of trust. i just dont knwo how to stop crying. i just miss him so much already we agreed to only talk on sundays only. i started to fight wiht him on how it

on how our relationship means more than talkign only once a week. a few times a week would be nice. then he started to threaten me with saying how abotu once a month.... i dont knwo what to do. i dont have any friends i can talk to or anything.. im really shy and all..

we have a great relationship and both really love eachother. he says wed get back together when things cool down with school. he also work over 40 horus a week as well. so i know hes under alot of stress right now. and

he is not going to see other women. i do agree that we need time for oursleves for a little bit.

we have a great relationship and talked about marriage a few times before.. but that wouldnt be till like 4 years from now. we were serious. and we both love eachother. he says theres a really good chance of gettign back together. he he NEVER get myt hopes up. sometimes he says "im not going to say anythign cause i dont want to get your hopes up" and he knows that, but he said this and really meant it... i shoudl start usig my gym membership ig to a while back i guess now.....

Answer 1

I know it will be hard for you.It happened to me to.What I did was keep myself occupied with school or did something that I haven't done.Like taking a yoga class.It helps with your feeling's.It helps you relax and get stress out.Cause I know that being away from your bf will stress you out alot.Do things to keep your mind off of him for now.Then when the times right you and him will get back together.That's what happened to me.He came back to me.He loved me and he couldn't be without.I know if he loves you he will see what he is missing and he will come back to you.So for now don't get angry at him if you'll only talk on Sundays.Just act like your doing fine and that you can make it without him.That will show him that your not the desperate one.It will be hard so keep your head up.Be strong.

Answer 2

You are definitely depressed. This isn't environmental depression; there is something wrong with the chemical balances in your brain, and you can't control that. The best thing you can do for yourself right now is to go see a doctor. No matter how painful, embarassing, or unconvenient it is, only a professional can help you with your problem. They will give you medicine, therapy, or a combination of both, and it just might work wonders for you and your life. Other than going to the doctor, try to cheer up and vent off your depression/frustration of life by writing in a journal, taking walks in nature, or listening to some peaceful music. I've had a friend who was depressed, and she didn't tell anyone about it for a long time. She tried committing suicide twice. Then, her parents found out and she was forced to go see a doctor. And now her life is much better.

Answer 3

he acts as if he isn't even sure he loves u anymore, how do u know there isn't anyone else he is seeing? u gave everything to this relationship and now u don't even have an identity, without him. u are going to feel bad.looks as if he wants to end it with u and his excuses are school, work, etc, but in reality he just wants to get out of it as clean as possible, not wanting to have a confrontation with u, he is basically a coward, for not giving u the real reasons he is doing this. guess u will have to accept it, and find some friends, what he is saying is he doesn't know if he will get back with u or not, so i would believe that and let him have all the space he wants.

Answer 4

You have to pick yourself up, dust yourself off and give him the middle finger and move forward. Why do you want to be with someone who is asking for space? Give him 100% space and then some. When a guys says that, he is just trying to let you down easy. Girl, you need to get some friends. That is a must. How come you are in college and you have no friends? Listen to Beyonce's new song called "Irreplaceable" You are a young, beautiful woman, there are a million other men in this world, focus on you, not him and it will cheer you.

Answer 5

I think you should back off a bit. I know its easier said than done. You say you are in college, so start talking to other people, hang around with friends, go watch a movie. In a couple of months, he would be the one asking to spend some quality time with you.

Answer 6

The harder you try the farther he will go ,you said you both agreed on a break , sounds like you didn't want it?
You are going to loose out in school unless you get back on course finish school first ,Give him space ,If he wants you let him come to you , Make new friends. Don't let anybody make you feel bad. Keep Smiling Have Fun your only young once.

Answer 7

When you speak on the phone, who is calling who? If its you calling him then maybe you should stop. Sounds like he is trying to distance himself from you. You might not have done anything wrong. It could just be him. Maybe he has his eyes set on someone else, or just wants to be alone. Stop crying and get out of the house or apt. Go somewhere there are other people and start a conversation. I would move on.

Answer 8

I do really feel how your feelings is, how it hurts deeply, it's obvious from your long written , you need to talk to honest one..but he won't come back cuz if he really loves you he couldn't left you for any reason :((

Believe me by time you'll forget him and that one you feel that he is the only one all over the world u'll discover that there are many better than him..

someone care about u, luv you, miss you, someone really deserve u..

He doesn't deserve your luv

:(

Answer 9

I am sorry you don't have anyone to talk to about this.Without knowing you two its hard to really know what to tell you.Didn't you have friends that you did things with anyone that knows about you two and can give you some morel support.Don't push him about this or he will bolt and run for sure.Maybe he just needs time to explore his feelings.Take a deep breath and remember time passes fast if you keep busy and keep your mind on other things.Thinking about it just makes time drag.Best of luck.

Answer 10

you should pick yourself off that chair and find some friends to spend some time with- you need to get him out of your mind- if he threatened to call once a month that should have been a red flag