the story is my best friend got a new bf a couple months ago. at frist i was like oh way to go (cus she had been crushen him for months!!) and so they go out and i dont really like him...he kinda had that im so cool attuditue, but she really liked him so i tried not to say anthing....then i see him flirting with this girl all the time he even blows off my friend to sit with her... so i get mad cus she was hurt and wouldnt say anything so after that he hated me. net time i see him, 5 girls, one touching him"all over" and they where carrieng each other and all over each other. so i told my friend and she was upset and i went off on her bf, and he got so mad at me, him and like 6 of his friends where like nothing is going on that the girl was "just cold" but i was really mad and my friend just said she would forget about it. the boyfriend has started crap with me saying im trieng to break them up..... do u think telling her and stuff is tring to break them up or keeping a friend safe?
2007-01-25 09:13:32 · 9 answers · asked by nade63090 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she's your real friend she'll have your back and know that you have her best interest in mind. However, if she isn't open yo your criticism, my best advice is to let her make her own bed. She isn't going to listen to you and if she wants to be a jerk and make a big mistake...let her. All you can do is make sure you are living your life in a positive way and if she want listen to you, maybe she'll follow by example. :)
2007-01-25 09:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Witty_Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His reaction kinda got you to back off didn't it? and he will continue to do it to make sure you stay backed off!! So don't. He's a dog and he's mad that you are aware what he's really like. Now all he has to do is try to get your BF to believe him, not you.
Tell your BF that you are staying out of it and will always be there for her. She has to decide when to figure out he is a dog.
2007-01-25 09:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is , you justify it to yourself by saying she needs to know this, but with all the stuff you have told her and shown her and she is still one of his girlfriends . The guy is a player and you know it and I believe you when you say he is hurting her, but you can not change him or her, so give it up, The day will come when she figures it out for her self, and there is not much you can do until then
2007-01-25 09:32:08 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl is your best friend. What would you want in this situation? would you want to know? Of course.
He's flirting, so tell her what he's doing. TO me, flirting is cheating. She should dump him, and if she doesn't believe you, she'll have to find out the hard way
Good luck hun, you did the right thing.
2007-01-25 09:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Love is Patient, Love is Kind ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hek naw if you saw your gurls bf doing something he knew he wasnt suppose to do then you confont him and tell your bestfriend that shes to good for him and she can and will find better just tell your friend to trust her gut.....shes your bst friend and should believe you and when you get a chance hit the boy over the head with a brick and tell him dont eva play your friend again or he'll get something worser..... if your that brave and not scared to say anything!! i hope that helped you.
2007-01-25 13:43:47 · answer #5 · answered by twoangelface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you told her friend twice that the man she was with is disrespecting their relationship and she still decided to go back to him. this means that you should leave that relationship alone, be there when she needs someone to talk to, but do the listening, sometimes you have to allow your friends to make there own mistakes, even if it hurts to watch someone treat them like dirt/
2007-01-25 09:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you find her someone more to your liking. if shes happy let her be, if not then throw all the salt you can.
2007-01-25 09:21:58 · answer #7 · answered by dr dick johnson 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And we care because??????? You should give me $20 for having to read that !!!
2007-01-25 11:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by I'm laughing WITH you 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should of kept out of it and let your friend handle it.
2007-01-25 09:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋