i married 1year ago with my parents' insisting to my cousin i was so child to stand up and say my words to them and tell them NO. during this one year i feel that i grew up. now i think i didnt know any thing about life and love that time. now i cant have a good realationship with him. we are just same as 2 cousin. maybe 2years ago we were more likely to talk to each other than todays. ( i should say that he loves me, but i m not sure about myself) . what should i do ?
2007-01-25 09:03:26 · 6 answers · asked by silver needs you 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should follow your heart, and leave him. I feel that's how you truly are feeling. Your parents were completely wrong in doing what they did! But it's to late to worry about the past. You have matured now, and it's time for you to do what you feel is right. You can't feel bad for everyone else in this life, because it's important that you are happy. Only you can start a new life for your self. So be strong, and the sooner you do it the better. You might have some hard times at first, but it will get better in time.
2007-01-25 09:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am totally confused. You married your cousin? Or its like you are cousins now instead of a married couple? And your parents thought you were too immature to marry and now you think they were right? But now you have grown up? Am I getting this right? OK...well...I just say do what your heart AND mind tells you to do. You are an adult now (I would assume) you have to balance emotion with reason. If you think it is not best for you to be together...then you probably shouldn't be. Good luck!
2007-01-25 17:21:46 · answer #2 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only get one chance at life. This is your life. What happens when you get to 60 ( when your parents may be long dead and gone) and you look back? Will you have had a happy and fulfilled life with this husband you did not choose and do not love ?
I have recently gone through a divorce and I agonised over leaving my husband for ages, worrying, amongst other things about trying to protect my family's feelings.
In the long run, the only person you answer to is yourself..... Be strong and good luck.
2007-01-25 17:24:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I'm reading this correctly you married your cousin at the direction of your parents? if this is the case, don't have any children and get the heck out.
2007-01-25 17:32:02 · answer #4 · answered by chyatt@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you are married....ask yourself some questions....does he love me? does he provide? does he treat me right? and so on, Jesus loves you....never give up....God bless ya
2007-01-25 17:19:35 · answer #5 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, Talk to a counselor, and then to yourself, then decide!
2007-01-25 17:22:33 · answer #6 · answered by Celeste P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋