i am 40 years old and have been divorced for 14 years--my kids are grown and in college
i don't want to be single
where can i meet really good people online that isn't so expensive
i have hobbies but i really want to find someone to spend some time with
2007-01-25 08:55:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To me, you're at the perfect age to be just getting in a relationship- you've lived your younger days, raised kids, now you should know just what you want--you're lucky to be in that position--avoiding all the crap that the younger gals put up with all the time; I hope you find someone loving, caring, who settles down with you and makes you happy! Now that your ready; God will send him; don't go looking ....he'll come....
2007-01-25 09:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 02:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by restrepo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this aint gonna happen. my friend sits on internet in all those dating agencies for more than 6 years now, now she is 41, she started when she was 35 - a young woman. she met only once with some old geezer who lives in another country and still is writing her emails once in half a year. i tried to use those dating agencies too, i wrote i am 29 (i am not thou, but i look like one). so guess what - old geezers after 50 were writing me. like very many of them. they looked ancient. so guess who will write to u if u re 40. why on earth do u need and old sick weak geezer? u want to nurse someone? so go to nursing home, u can do it right now, no need to wait. those dating agencies are completely useless
2007-01-25 09:04:53 · answer #3 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agee with Brent! Join a club for singles, go to Bingo at the churches in your area you will meet some nice people.and have a great time. I do.
2007-01-25 10:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by RC C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I received is to be social. The more you are involved in - the more people you have the chance to meet. Check to see if there are any organizations in your community or church that interest you. Good luck!
2007-01-25 09:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just have another child :) because that IS what men are ;)
You will meet someone, look for him at the grocery store or when you are out walking, it can happen anywhere, so walk around with your head hight and happy, that attracts people.
2007-01-25 09:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget on line. Go out to restaurants, churches, civic meetings, concerts, hobby groups etc.
2007-01-25 09:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yahoo has profiles of men in your area who are looking for someone also. I think it is fairly inexpensive. Just be VERY CAREFUL that you meet in a public place and check out his references....work, address, etc. to make sure he is single and is who he says he is....check the sex offender site in your area too. Good luck!
2007-01-25 09:03:29 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask God to lead you in the right direction. It may sound silly, but He is in control. It worked for me
2007-01-25 14:19:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were not created to be alone....Father I ask that you would bring that special person into Marissa's life, believe and recieve....in Jesus mighty name....amen....Jesus loves you
2007-01-25 09:06:58 · answer #10 · answered by Bert 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋