2007-01-25 08:52:39 · 14 answers · asked by Raven 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Or worried?
2007-01-25 09:00:05 · update #1
Trust is key for a successful marriage, if he has given you reason not to then you have something to worry about. If he hasn't, you need to chill or YOU will ruin your marriage.
2007-01-25 09:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by kitkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a marine wife...my husband leaves for 7 months at a time to an entire different country where hes not home on the weekends obviously lol...my only advice is since you can,try to video chat in the evenings, phone calls stuff like that...and dont think about it so much...with all you already have going on it seems you have plenty to keep busy...focus on spending more time doing things with your kids that always helps....and remember hes doing it to provide for his family...and if you cant stand it then maybe you two should sit and talk about job options....good luck
2016-03-29 02:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband is always gone for work. out 7 days home 2/3. it really sux. but i know that he loves me and he would never do anything wrong. we talk on the phone everynight and sometimes off and on all day. but i also get my mom in law to watch my kids for a week about 2 times a year to go out with him. its hard but im not jealous.
2007-01-25 12:13:13 · answer #3 · answered by ladybug_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? That is so hard to deal with but you HAVE to learn to do just that - deal with it. I think it is very normal to be jealous and cautious - just don't overdo it. Honestly...it would make anyone uncomfortable.... Try to stay busy when he is gone, the less you think about it the easier it is. And IF he is cheating - it'll come out sooner or later. Just don't let your fear consume you.
2007-01-25 09:01:14 · answer #4 · answered by Yvonne M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should trust your husband, you don't need to trust the women that he works with. It will drive you mad if you don't stop thinking about it. Let it go, IF he was to cheat, he will whether you worry or not.
2007-01-25 09:01:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just trust and stay in communication with your husband..tell him you are insecure and tell him sometimes you need reassurance.
My husband is a very great hair stylest and he also travel alot so I go through this daily
2007-01-25 09:38:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealously can ruin a marriage, even if there's nothing going on. Try not to be so nosy into your husband work that it drives you crazy with negative thoughts.
2007-01-25 09:07:38 · answer #7 · answered by saturn man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is a symptom of insecurity - your insecurity. Only you can decide if you can trust your man.
Why do you feel so insufficient that you can't hold your man?
Perhaps, you need to explore that before you get too worried.
Have you ever heard of phone sex?
I had a boss whose wife tended to jealousy of his female co-workers. Believe me, she had no reason and, likely neither do you.
2007-01-25 09:24:34 · answer #8 · answered by txkathidy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to "cope" with him? Apparently you have some basic trust issues. If he has given you cause, he has a problem. If he gives you no cause, you have a problem. Either way, talk with him about your concerns.
2007-01-25 09:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he is coming home to me and bringing home the bacon and while he is gone still trusts me being at home ---then we could both be in a jealous situation couldn't we? depends on how he is when he gets home--a woman can tell when something isn't right; but if he loves you, then he treats you that way...
2007-01-25 09:00:40 · answer #10 · answered by Virgo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋