I'm 16 & all my friends have lost the virginity but I'm not interested in any of that sort of stuff.
I just want a guy who wants to be with me & not use my body.
My last few guys have dumped me or something to that extent because i won't do anything sexual with them.
2007-01-25 08:50:32 · 7 answers · asked by Jenni 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There is nothing wrong with being a 16 yr old virgin. That should be normal! Yes you might get dumped for not putting out. But you have your self respect. You owe it to yourself to be choosy. You will be glad you were when you're older. Eventually you will find someone who just wants to be with you and is willing to wait.
2007-01-25 09:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by Sweet Tooth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a teenager I was very well put together. Most boys were attracted to me because of the way I was built. It bothered me a lot, so I concentrated on being very smart and filling my mind with positive things. I felt that if I was a challenge to them that way, they would know that they couldn't conquer me physically. You have to be ready for sex, and if you know or feel that you are not, don't think that there is something wrong with you. There isn't. Kudos to you for understanding that.
2007-01-29 06:32:46 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand firm on your decision there is nothing wrong with you. A guy that is not willing to wait is not worth the time. good luck what you believe in is great!! Claire
2007-01-25 09:44:18 · answer #3 · answered by Claire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Guess u are wonderful..u r an Inspiration for all the youth..You are a girl who believes in true love..dats it
2007-01-25 09:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by sam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I respect that...But it doesn't hurt when practice makes perfect...I guarentee you that when you met your true love...he's not gonna be a virgin....(My opinion) All guys are perverted when they 5...and when they turn 14-15 they soon are sexually active...There not gonna wait untill true love...trust me, they can't wait too long.
2007-01-25 09:09:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is NOTHING wrong with you. losing your virginity is YOUR choice. don't let ANYONE talk you into or out of it.
2007-01-25 09:06:36 · answer #6 · answered by rainyday<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay this way until u r ready
2007-01-29 07:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by ami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋