2007-01-25 08:47:32 · 18 answers · asked by Nat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
CUTE PIC! ITS WAS LOVE, AND WE STILL LOVE EACH OTHER
2007-01-25 08:53:49 · answer #1 · answered by CANDY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first time, I was 19 and "in luv". I was too young to know what real love was...hadn't had enough life experience but he was 5 yrs older and crazy about me, and proposed and I was ready to move out of Mom's house and be 'grown up'. It lasted 7 years before we separated.
The second time, I was 28-ish (maybe 29). I was insecure, overweight, and felt like it might be my "last chance" so I married a guy I'd been dating whom I thought I loved. In a way I probably did, but we weren't a good match and went our separate ways 17 months later.
That's when I learned that I'd rather be alone the rest of my life, than be with someone and be unhappy...never settle.
A decade or so later I'm still single and not regretting it.
2007-01-25 16:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I find that women say yes because its hard to say no, I got married for love...but you can fall out of love. You can get married for lust, then fall in love. It's never for sure. If you know that you have made a mistake, and if you know that you will never love the person you are married to (because you do know, even if you repress it, you know) you should leave, it's not fair to either of you to be married if love isn't coming from both ways.
2007-01-25 16:55:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ms Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would marry her again today. Loved her then and now. Still lust for her.
2007-01-25 16:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The first was between lust, and fear...lasted less than a year...the second...complete and total love....been almost 15 years now and going strong.
2007-01-25 16:55:08 · answer #5 · answered by Mustang Sally 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definately lust.
2007-01-25 17:21:39 · answer #6 · answered by mark m 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I was in lust becasue I really cant stand my husband right now after getting to know who he really was!
2007-01-25 17:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by ya girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in love but I have always wondered about my X... hahaha
I think the experience excited her more than anything... she soon regretting moving to the US to be with me and leaving her family.
2007-01-25 16:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by casisevillano 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
In love.
2007-01-25 17:00:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love your question, especially the last part. u know now it seems also that i had nothing to do on that day, probably gym was closed
2007-01-25 16:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by jacky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In love for life...no matter what happens...12 years...and a lot can happen in that time...
2007-01-25 17:49:44 · answer #11 · answered by chef.jnstwrt 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋