do you and your spouse do any special positions or anything to get more close? I'd appreciate the answers thanks!!!
2007-01-25 08:28:55 · 19 answers · asked by Lucky Mommy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Try new things together - that's what it's all about - keeping things new and alive!
2007-01-25 08:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by Extra_Sweetcorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grown up sex isn't about positions or technique or duration. It's about feeling and experiencing each other to the fullest with all the five senses.
It's about not worrying how you look, how long the erection lasts or keeping orgasm scores. Use the erection when it's there but don't let it dictate the timing of everything else.
It's about touching each other with all that you are, holding back sometimes, waiting. It's about keeping each other happy, on the edge and making it last all night whenever you want to. It's about exploring each other and discovery and joy. It means anything you agree upon goes, without fear, without shame and without modesty.
Adult sex is about play, the grown up kind. So relax and enjoy each other to the limits.
2007-01-25 17:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My fiance and I usually try missionary position if we want to be more close...it's not for orgasm purposes, but he's usually on top and will wrap his arms around me and hold me as close as possible and that way we can kiss and look into each other's eyes and just feel close to one another. Sex shouldn't be about one single position. It should be about having fun and trying different things. It shouldn't be porn star sex, it should be giggling and having a nice time and getting to know one another.
2007-01-25 16:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a positions book and try a few every once in a while. My wife and I have been together for ten years and we still try new things all the time. Toys have also been a pleasure for both of us they are worth a shot too.
2007-01-25 16:40:48 · answer #4 · answered by ryder204_jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
passionate sex but passionate ( love there is a diffidence when making passionate love you feel every thing the touch the heart beat when you look into each other eyes.there a feeling that come over you when you make love it like nothing you ever ex-pence when it is true passionate love when you climax you both feel the intense of it your heart beat races your pores sweat a lot and when you kiss you can feel the deep passionate in each other and when you touch each other breast you can feel the tingling in your body when it is true passionate love and when he touches you in the area were you enjoy it the most you well climax automatic there are different position for every body it what you feel comfortable in.
2007-01-25 16:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women enjoy different things, Make sure you communicate to your spouse what you like and ask them what they like, for him it may be fun to have you in a short skirt bending over in front of him in the kitchen and looking back at him and asking if he sees anything he likes and asking him what he wants to do with it, while for you he might make a bubble bath surrounded by candles, and you can enjoy a nice soothing bubble bath together.
2007-01-25 16:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by maxexposure2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trying new positions is what keeps it interesting and exciting. Missionary sex gets boring very quickly.
2007-01-25 16:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by simple_man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My wife is very into lingerie and heels. It works great. And although its not for everyone, she has had some outside the marriage flings that have put a lot of fire back into our relationship. We have been married over 20 years...
2007-01-25 17:30:55 · answer #8 · answered by mark m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Reverse Cowboy is a great position.
2007-01-25 16:35:52 · answer #9 · answered by Add Man 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try Kama Sutra its on dvd. The art of making love
2007-01-25 16:40:32 · answer #10 · answered by mickmanster1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO - we don't and that's why there isn't any passion.
Of course he doesn't really see it that way... but I do.
You should always try different things,,, not constantly, just every now and then trying a little something different.
2007-01-25 16:37:20 · answer #11 · answered by addicted2stamping 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋