Why not? Should they be allowed to go elsewhere for it?
2007-01-25 08:20:48 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He wants to be my back door man.
Maybe someday, if he plays his cards right :)
2007-01-25 08:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it she won't do that you want to do? And, no, you shouldn't be allowed to go elsewhere unless that is your agreement with your spouse. Perhaps she should go elsewhere to get a decent husband.
2007-01-25 09:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Noone is EVER allowed to go elsewhere for it. That is ridiculous and unreasonable thinking. If your spouse is unwilling to do something, there is a good reason for it. I know that we are very experimental in the bedroom, but if I ever refused to do something, I trust that he would never go anywhere and neither would I. If you lose trust... The relationship is over.
2007-01-25 08:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if a spouse feels uncomfortable in "doing certain" things in the bedroom the other partner should Respect that and NO they shouldn't be "allowed" to go elsewhere for it.......if they feel they need to go elsewhere........then leave the marriage /relationship for good cuz you don't "deserve" to be in one*
2007-01-25 08:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
yes, there is.. I am not inclined to say.
he just has to deal with it. If he feels that it is a need, then we shouldn't be together. Elsewhere is not exceptable-end the marriage do not condone cheating. Or feel that you have to do that. If your spouse knew that you didn't do it before you got married then there should be no suprise.
2007-01-25 08:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by sweetybaby 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
YES! He wants to hang pictures of Harley Davidson motorcycles on the walls...no way. It's tackly. He can go elsewhere, like the garage.
2007-01-25 08:29:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
lets just say there will never EVER be any inserting of fingers in areas that were meant for EXIT ONLY! I don't know why she wants to do it so bad, but it will never happen. Just as she is not hip on swallowing. But neither I nor her would look elsewhere.
2007-01-25 08:26:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he does, he hasn't asked me. There are certain common-sense things I wouldn't do, but obviously I would never marry a person who would want me to go against my common sense. They should definitely go elsewhere for it, since I'd be long gone.
2007-01-25 08:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theirs nothing i wont do for him in that department! but if their was something that i didnt want to do he would respet my wishies, and he wouldnt go anywhere else because he no's whats best for him! lol! no seriously tho, he loves me and would hurt me! as for ur Q: u should talk with ur girl or whatever and ask y and talk about it u both love each other! exsplane it in that way, u shouldnt go out and find it any where else xspecialy if u really really love that person! they will prob. come around it just takes time for ppl to open up in that department sometimes ppl still dont like there body and are insucure about it dont force them to make a disagin about things like that
BUT he wont do it when we'r out and i see a good place and its the right time he always says no! wtf's up with that!!!!
2007-01-25 08:40:42 · answer #9 · answered by CANDY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! No one should have to perform sex acts that make them uncomfortable! If you love and respect your spouse you will not even want to go "elsewhere for it"... that is ridiculous!
When you get married you make a commitment to that person.
Sometimes fantasy is better than reality, why would it make you feel good to do something t someone that wasn't into it.
Just think about it when you are "taking care of yourself"!
2007-01-25 08:28:04 · answer #10 · answered by flappymcp 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Really regular anal sex.
Why not? because it's uncomfortable unless I'm really in the mood for it.
Should he be able to go elsewhere for it? No way - he gets it occasionally - when I'm in the mood - and when it happens, I instigate and enjoy it.
If a partner threatens to leave/be unfaithful for a sexual act - you're both in the wrong relationship.
2007-01-25 08:29:08 · answer #11 · answered by Extra_Sweetcorn 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋