I am afraid to confront people, what can I do?

Answer 1

Im not good at confronting people either. The thing to do is first figure out why you want to confront the person, also it's good to figure out what you are going to say. The next part is just having the guts to do it, trust me it is better to do it sooner, cause if you let it build up, you could get very mad at the person and say things you don't mean or worse take out the anger on someone else. And don't be afraid to say what's on your mind, if it's what you believe or think you have a right to say it. Also don't back down unless they understand or you actually find yourself in the wrong. This has helped me many times. Good luck to you.

Answer 2

You may want to use a different approach.

Maybe you should start spending time rehearsing what you wanna say to the other person. Some people can speak their minds spontaneously whereas others need time to think beforehand.

Another thing is think about why do you want to confront? If you want to confront people because you are mistreated or have been a victim of unfairness, then you must think about having a fair go for yourself. If you find it hard to confront a group of people, then target one significant person out of that group and confront him/ her. That'll be easier for you.

Answer 3

Confruntation in an agressive way is un-neccessary. But if you mean confruntation in a nature such as talking to a girl, then i guess the best way you can do is to improve your confidence..
Most people gain confidence off achievements, I find playing the guitar has boosted my confidence. Joining a group such as scouts and accomplishing something boosts your confidence too.
You low-confidence could have been caused by a bully or something, Removing this from the equation may also make you a more confident person. I found that when i went to university i was faced with SOPHISTICATED people rather than idiots, so i was able to express myself more.

Answer 4

Practice, practice, practice.
Years ago I had a similar concern in regards to job interviews. So, I practiced going on interviews for jobs that I didn’t really want. After practicing a 3 or 4 times, I gained confidence thru experience. It helped.

If your issue is with the opposite sex, (or same sex, if you prefer), practice approaching less intimidating people.

Practice where the outcome is not as important, and with experience you will find everything easier to face.

Answer 5

Sounds like you have fear of man. Being liked or accepted, or perhaps not having to face confrontation is your controlling desire. The thing to do is recognize what desires you are committed to, and so when you set this desire as an idol in your life, you will wind up serving and bowing down to it. The thing to do is to get up each morning and commit to other desires. My goal is to love and serve God, and love and serve others. I don’t do it perfectly, but it is the more desired thing than being ruled by certain unhealthy and or destructive desires.

Answer 6

Confort your self first, think of the right words get some strenght and confort people it is easy just get sad for the person and you will automatically confort them.
I cant put it in words so it may sound rude but it is not so.
Be happy!!!

Answer 7

My question is, are you being attacked? If so, stand your ground, if you are right. To defend yourself is not confrontation. Is there another context you are referring to? I need more.

Answer 8

well for starters you can delete this question and re-post it under family and relationships

Answer 9

gEt SoMe MoNeY aNd BuY tHeIr FrIeNdShIP

Answer 10

be proud