How do i know whether I am gay or not??

Question

I feel like i am gay but i do not know whether i am gay or not

Answer 1

I don't know if you are or not but what you have to do is "Make YOU Happy". If you are then accept it and go on with your life and don't come to this type of forum looking for attention. There is no one in the world who can tell you what to be in life. Would it really be that bad to be gay? If you are fine, if you aren't that's fine too but only YOU can decide.............

Answer 2

Is this about your attractions or actions. Some people have a gender nonconformity. Some may be born with a gender nonconformity or some people may lear characterisctics that cause them to have a gender nonconformity. Gender nonconformity does not mean a person is gay. Many believe it is a predisposition to becoming gay. Gender nonconformity is a seperate issue.
Homosexuality is constructed. A child could innoscently have liked or become attracted to same gender when the child was young, even forgotten it, but later resurfce as something one is feeling.
You want to know how homosexuality is constructed;
The Formula For Producing A Homosexual
This formula can be illustrated in this way:


A Predisposition
Toward Homosexuality

Plus

That First
Homosexual Experience

Multiplied By

Pleasurable and Positive
Homosexual Thoughts

To Which Is Added

More Homosexual
Experiences

Multiplied By

More Pleasurable
Thoughts

---------------------------

A Homosexual

Even a thought or even if someone else is thinking it of youy can be a predisposition.

Answer 3

If you are aroused at the sight of a male body and you find men sexually attractive you may be gay. If you are very young, even straight boys sometimes go through a period of doubt.

It doesn't matter if you are gay. There's nothing you can do about it. Just accept your sexuality. Be proud of being gay.

Answer 4

Are you attracted to guys? If so, you're probably not straight. Don't feel like you have to be one or the other -- some say as many as 40% are bisexual. Don't worry about it too much.

Also see source, the Kinsey scale -- a sliding scale of sexuality.

Answer 5

When i felt like i was gay but wasn't sure, it was because everyone had convinced me it wasn't normal. It is though, perfectly normal. So maybe you are gay, which means you are emotionally, sexually, physically and/or spiritually attracted to people of the same sex as you. Which is hot, and if you agree, you're probably one of us :)
Welcome...
heh.

Answer 6

Gay means that you flat out like the same sex thats it. Bi-curious means you are attracted to both men and women. Me I am bi-curious and is attracted to to both sexes as long as they meet my standards. Not every guy i look at turns me on. Just like for a straight person not everyone of the opposite sex turn them on. But to really answer your question you are probaly bi-curious since you had to ask the question.take care

Answer 7

The best measure is sexual fantasy while masturbating. If you imagine sex with other men, you are gay. If you imagine sex with women, you are straight. If you think of sexual situations with both men and women, you are bi.

Whatever you are don't worry about it - it's perfectly normal, it's who you are, and nothing will change it.

Answer 8

watch a pron with women in it and see if it turns you on. Then watch American Idol and see if Ryan Seacrest works for you. Do you dance with your hands above your shoulders? Know show tunes? notice what shoes men and women are wearing? talk with a lisp? Not that any of these questions are important... no way...lol

Answer 9

Well if you look at guys and you look at their asses and you go "well my god he is damn fine" or ' i have seen better butts"
Then hun i am sorry to say that you are gay

Answer 10

a lot of people have that problem. Just ask yourself essential questions like "Would I rather do a boy or a girl?" "Do I care about what people think of me?" you know, things like that