Are there any swingers on yahoo answers?

Question

Please be 21+ years old and married. Anyone have a story to share? Weird experience? What are your Likes/Dislikes about the lifestyle?

Answer 1

Over 21...check. Married...check. Story to share? Mmm...nah, sorry. We don't kiss and tell. And weird experiences...well weird compared with what? Weird is a very relative term. Lots of people say we're downright bizarre for even considering sharing our spouses. From our perspective, the mainstream's version of "normalcy" seems very skewed to us. Jealousy just makes no sense to us anymore, and we can't understand how/why people still choose to live with it.

I guess that's really the best thing about swinging: we no longer have to guess at our partner's faithfulness. We KNOW where their loyalty lies. Other women may have been given the privelege of enjoying my husband's sexual attentions, and he theirs, but in the end we've realized that sex is not what holds our marriage together. Until we proved that to ourselves in this way, we would always wonder what would become of us if the "worst" was to happen. The worst thing imaginable, of course, would have been one of us having sex with someone else. So...now that that's happened and the sky didn't fall and we weren't struck dead with a bolt of lightning...and our marriage didn't disintegrate the way we've been told would happen...now we don't have to wonder anymore. Now we see what really DOES hold us together, and it's a lot more permanent and unshakeable than sex. If we relied on sexual exclusivity to hold us together, there would always be a way for someone OUTSIDE of our relationship to come between us. But now, because that time bomb has been defused, nothng can come between us anymore. No one else will ever have the power to hurt our marriage...unless one of us allows them to. It can only be broken from the inside out.

Being a logical person who thinks in absolutes, I'm just not sure I could ever really be at peace with a marriage where there was even an iota of doubt. And not being certain is the same thing as doubt in my mind. But we've discovered that this works, and the truth has been self-evident.

It's not nearly as simple as the nay-sayers would lead you to believe. There's way more to the story, if you care to find out. Check out the website below. If you're fascinated by the swinger's lifestyle, you'll quickly become addicted and can easily spend days with your face glued to the screen. Everything under the sun has been discussed here at least twice. AMAZING resource for anyone interested in marriage improvement. The board has its share of non-swinging "French Vanillas". Otherwise known as monogamists who have considered swinging but decided that monogamy was a better fit for their marriage. This is fully supported there. No monogamy bashing. :) Just a great little community.

Answer 2

Oh I used to like a good swing me, down the Feathers on a Friday night with Doris n' Derek all doing the huffle shuffle and the hootchie cootchie, ohhh I used to love all that until my Albert died, and the arthritis set in. Now my Friday night consists of not much more than a micro meal for one, a bit of Poirot on the telly and a good dump on the commode before I retire to bed and put my support stockings on. Hope this answers you're question young man, hope you didn't mean something else.

Answer 3

I am swinger when it comes to women

Answer 4

Yes, we are. What I will tell you is that it is nothing like you see in porn. It's nothing you think it is and better then you could ever imagine.

Answer 5

how can we see a picture of Monica???

Answer 6

Yahoo Personals is ---------->
that way.

Answer 7

Monica and I are all for it!!!..........signed, Bill C.