why do you feel like its a reflection of you or how they feel about you?
why do you assume if they watch porn they will cheat on you?
2007-01-25 07:04:44 · 9 answers · asked by Forever_Young 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Woman don't like porno when they are:
1) Insecure
2) Raised that it is "bad"
3) Don't feel included
I, as a woman, don't mind a guy watching porn. Sometimes I join in to see if there is anything new to learn from it or for a good laugh (face it guys, some of it is ridiculous).
A woman who is insecure is going to feel as though the porn is more enjoyable then her and is jealous. A woman raised that it is "bad" needs to be enlightened. All three of these can be fixed with invite her to join you! If she does if can be fun (or funny), she may enjoy it.. If she doesn't join in after you have invited her a few times, she has no right to complain now does she.
2007-01-25 07:47:15 · answer #1 · answered by teris 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If she has a problem with it, why not give up porn? If he's not addictive, not a reflection of how you view women and sexuality, merely a harmless amusement, then why not give up your porn for a harmless amusement that you both can enjoy? You might say it's only fantasy but, how many of those porn fantasies have you acted out (or tried to act out) with her or other women? Once it becomes part of real life, it's not a fantasy anymore.
She should have a problem with it and she should put her foot down that she won't tolerate it. It's not fair to her and it's not fair to yourself. It's damaging and disrespectful.
Before you go blowing me up as some old prude that doesn't know what I'm talking about, stop and think about it. Do some research on it.
And you can sign me, "Been there, done that, have the medical bills, counseling sessions, lost years and shamed family to prove it."
Get help. God bless.
2007-01-25 07:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by penhead72 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you want your woman watching porn? Its a self image problem and not just women have it. It makes them feel that they are not good enough for the spouse if they have to go watch someone else. Thats for both men and women. Not all men cheat on their women just because they watched porn, but it happens more times than none.
2007-01-25 07:41:18 · answer #3 · answered by PfcsBaby 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men have always been and will always be visual creatures, we will look at other women and most of us will watch porn, or look at other forms of pornography. If women think that we have stopped looking its probably only because we have become alot better at hidding it. It means nothing about how much we love or want our women it just means that our minds are wired to look. Even if we are completely satisfied with what we have we will always look, we may not buy but we can't help but look.
2007-01-25 07:38:09 · answer #4 · answered by maxexposure2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some women feel like they are not good enough or good looking enough or can keep there man happy enough without them having to look at someone else while they are with you if you love the person you are with and they keep you happy then there really should be no reason for you to look at that especially if it bothers them. not all women think that if a guy looks at porn that they will cheat but maybe they will think that they are missing something that there man wants
2007-01-25 09:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by jayden 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two reasons. One generally porn is harmless however this is not always true some men are addicts and need help some men are too involved in porn and not involved enough in the real relationship. Two. Some women loathe porn they hate it they might have issues or mental illness but they generally are sexually dysfunctional it is one thing to not like porn as you do not have to like it but to hate it is almost pathological.
2007-01-25 07:47:51 · answer #6 · answered by tp3bop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY they watch it is the key answer here. It is an addiction like any other vice-sign of weakness, lack of self control and a sick obsession. Check with your local law enforcement agency for exact figures relating porn to sexual and physical abuse and violent behavior.
2007-01-25 07:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Diane H 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
why must men hide the fact. maybe it isnt that you watch porn, but the fact that you feel the need to hide it from us. Because if you have to hide something that stupid then it makes us wonder what else you may be hiding from us ? most women are aware of the fact that 95% of men watch it, we are not stupid, so quit hiding it.
2007-01-26 04:22:12 · answer #8 · answered by clubchaos1965 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women presume that men think like women....
Women understand that a mans body is different but
the fail to realize that mans brain is also different..
There is a type of porn designed for women..."Erotic Romance".
Some women understand this innately and some learn it
and some never do....
2007-01-25 07:52:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋