Love is so confusing. i dont' understand it, see there is this boy and i met him when i was in 4th grade and now am in 10th grade. i haven't seen him seen but he is my cousin's friend so when they go and see him i can get pictures of him. he lives in minnesota and i can't him out of my head. i think about him every night and day and how my life would be if he was here with me. i dont' know what to do? should i get thinking about him or just forget about him?
2007-01-25 06:48:50 · 7 answers · asked by J 3 lv lv 2 in Games & Recreation ➔ Other - Games & Recreation
if he's someone special to u, and u know that ur cousin is friends with him, by all means INQUIRE. ask ur cousin the info on this guy! :) and say that something about him stood out to you for some reason, and u'd really like to talk w/ him again or reconnect. if he is not willing, or turns out to be kinda mean or immature, forget it. but if he is cool w/ emailing w/ u or something, then try it. it's worth it to figure out!!! and at least u have connection, think of those people who fall in love w/ strangers and never see them again!! it's like a lost opportunity.. even if u get rejected or something it's OK, cuz u don't really know if u guys are compatible anyways. just go for it, don't let it bother u whether or not it works ok? :) u gotta be a strong, confident, beautiful, happy and Positive girl who is really great, and any guy would be lucky to be around u~
2007-01-25 06:58:39 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still have so much life to live. Take it easy, enjoy yourself, your family, and your friends. Find out who you are before you try to pair yourself up with someone.
Sure some people get fall in love or get married right out of high school but most of the people I know who got married right away, are now divorced and have children that is carted back and fourth from house to house every other week.
Go to college, join the military, travel, do whatever makes you happy when you graduate. You will evolve into a whole new person once you are on your own and truly are responsible for yourself. When you're that new person, you will see what a youngster you were in high school and how smart you were to take relationships with boys very lightly.
2007-01-25 15:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by momoftwo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This boy represents a history of whats ideal. You knew him when you were young, he knows your family which represents comfort, and you have created the perfect thoughts from your mind and placed him as the source. While you may have feelings for him it is more than likely that you love what you created and are just feeling the emotional need for companionship as is normal. The good thing is that your judgement is good because you are using the important aspects of what a meaning full relationship represents... Long term friendship, close family friendship, honest feelings.
You don't need to understand love... you just have to follow its rules. Don't look for it as it will find you when you least expect it and thats a whole lot more fun. Concentrate on friendships and your life path. Both are very important as they determine the quality of life and the potential for growth and longevity in any relationship. Have fun and have the best time you can have in what ever you do. The rest is automatic.
2007-01-25 15:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by vesarious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is hard, you have a crush on him, no matter how hard you try you wont forget about him. You see, you put a story on a face. You find the guy attractive and put a fantasy behind it. You know from what your cousin tells you, so you probably know what sports he like, his birthday, favortie color, all those minor details. Than you take those minor details and place them in your life.
What you are doing is completely normal. The sad truth is, whatever picture you put in your mind, he probably is like that in reality.
So keep dreaming about him (not your cousins friend, your fantasy), add whatever details you want and your true prince charming will someday find you.
2007-01-25 15:02:36 · answer #4 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's meant to be, it will be. Send him your email address and get to know him better that way. Who knows might happen but just remember not to sell yourself short. Sometimes when you're too busy waiting for one person to notice you, you can miss an even better person already noticing you. Make sense? ;)
Good Luck!!! :)
2007-01-25 15:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by singlebravesfan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its not as hard as u are making it seem. u shouldn't go and break your neck to find sumone, if they are right most likely they will find u, and u shouldn't just go looking anywhere 4 love, go to sensible places, like...................well not a club or bar but like church or sumwhere respectable, BE PATIENT!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 14:55:16 · answer #6 · answered by simone :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out!
2007-01-25 14:58:02 · answer #7 · answered by queenofcrazy09 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋