okay my sister is 15 me and her have the same dad but not the same mom. me and my sister and my brother all got taken out of our dads life for 11 years about a year ago we started talking to him again.so when we got back into his life we stared talking to his side of the family again too. okay my dad was adopted into his family when he was a baby so none of his family is our blood what so ever. so my sister slept with one of our none blood cousin from my dads side of the family and got pregnant. she says she wants to keep the baby but im not so sure nobody im my family belives in abortions should she keep it. my sister says it is okay since they are not blood. but then she tells me god does everything for a reason. so what do yall think
2007-01-25 06:11:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
well first of all, if u sister is ok with sleeping with her own cousin, blood or not, then she should be ok with taking care of her responsibilities... it was her choice to sleep with him, she should not kill her own child just because she might have made a wrong decision... but it's up to her, not anyone else, what she should do with her child... i understand that u are her sister and that u care for her, but the best thing for u and ur family to do is support her... at least let her give birth and give her child up for adoption... if that's what she wants to do... what does ur father think?
2007-01-25 06:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by buddahbump 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What your sister did was wrong. Slepting with family members is a abomination unto the lord.Doesnt matter if ur guys are not blood related still family. She should keep the baby. If she gets an abortion that would be two sins she commits.Thats baby didnt do anything wrong he/she deserves a chance.If ur sister ask God forgiveness she will get forgiveness but she as to mean it. I wish u all the best.
2007-01-25 06:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to keep the child she has every right to keep the child. As far as to what kind of future the child goes through, only time will tell. If the Child is raised well then everything should be fine. An open communication with the child at an easrly age should be best. Dirty little secrets can damage someone if not exposed early enough or worse, they find out in a bad way.
2007-01-25 06:21:25 · answer #3 · answered by janjan84 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me such as you're doing the remarkable component already. If he has no interest and makes no attempt to return and notice her then there is extremely no longer plenty desire. It would not sound love that's a precedence for him. you have made the remarkable determination by way of retaining her faraway from the drug abode. do no longer provide up and enable her pass there just to attempt and rigidity a relationship that it would not sound like he's that fascinated in. This guy sounds like a authentic loser and can be an extraordinarily undesirable impact on your daughter. i comprehend it is not hassle-free yet she's extra advantageous off devoid of him. Is there somebody else on your existence that could desire to help out in a fatherly form function like a relative, grandfather or somebody like that? Having a male determine in her existence might ease the soreness. draw close in there you're doing the remarkable component.
2016-09-27 23:39:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question really isn't about the baby being blood, better that it iISN'T, but at 15, your sister is NOT ready for a baby!! She should have an abortion, or if she is against that, have the baby and put it up for adoption. A 15 year old is by no means ready to be a parent.
2007-01-25 06:20:39 · answer #5 · answered by Nevermore 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Your sister is way too young to have a baby. Tell her to think about adoption and remind her blood or not, she will get a lot of **** for sleeping w/ her cousin.
2007-01-25 06:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
In the best interest of the child, the kid should be put up for adoption. She is unable to financially and possibly physically and emotionally care for a child at this point in her life. If God did this for a reason, then the reason might be to make her realize there are consequences to her actions and an innocent person shouldn't have to suffer for her indiscretions.
2007-01-25 06:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by darthbouncy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your sister's very right. She wants the baby and it's not going to have any chromosomal abnormalitied then let her go. It's really not your place to be on here telling her business like this. She had a reason to do what she did, let her live with HER life. There is absolutly no reason for her to have an abortion.
2007-01-25 06:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Camerons Mama07 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Abortion is not ok in this case. It's true that since they are not related by blood, the whole birth defect risk isn't there. Even if they were related by blood, that's her own fault for sleeping with her cousin.
2007-01-25 06:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Lady in Red 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your sister is right. This baby is a living person, just the same as you and me. No one has the right to kill him. Even the scientific community defines the baby growing inside her as a person, as he has all the charactaristics that define a person as a person.
Check out this website, and then tell me if you still think abortion is o.k.
2007-01-25 06:21:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋