Why do I lie so badly?

Question

I'm crazy about this woman. I've taken to making up IDs about her (daysleepernightcreeper is the original and right now she's East or West, Islam is the Best). I've been going to my usual job of hooking on the street. I have two children from other men and I don't even know who their father's are. But this woman, something about her is driving me insane. Oh how I love her. But she hates me. What can I do?

Answer 1

How much do u charge

Answer 2

Hi;
To answer your first question, "Why do I lie so badly?", the answer is simple: You don't practice enough. To be a truly proficient liar, you need to lie often and put some real effort into corroberating the lie into the weave of reality with a tangled web of deceitful supporting lies. Sure, it's alot to remember, but what else do you have to do?
As for the second question, "What can I do?", that's more difficult to nail down. What can you do... regarding what? To have her like you as a person? To be her friend? To make her love you? To change your life so you are happy and serene once again?
As an autonomous, creative being, you can do anything. There are no limitations to what is possible, though there are certain limitations dependant upon your level of awareness and understanding. Your question follows the statement "Oh, how I love her, but she hates me." Love. Ah, there's the rub. I find there are two primary aspects to attraction and "love". The "opposite's attract" phenomenon where we are attracted to attributes we find in the other that we do not possess ourselves. For example, I'm a grungy, rough-around-the-edges blue collar worker and I like soft, clean, perfumed, summer-dress-wearing girly girls. And, secondly, we desire the company of others who possess the attributes we value or admire which we may or may not have acquired as of yet. We like honest, kind, thoughtful, caring people (generally).
Everyone is the same in that we all desire the same thing essentially. Love. When we are in the needy stages of our development, we need someone to care about us... to be affectionate towards us... Sometimes, when life is particularly rough, we are desperately seeking that affection. It can be very frustrating and overwhelming. What you can do is make yourself more appealing to the other person. If you think honesty is a good attribute, because you hate being lied to, then work to lie less and less until you manage to not lie at all (or very infrequently). You can even undo lies. Just tell the truth. It get's to be a little embarassing after a while if you've told alot of lies (I know, I'm a much better liar than you... or, at least, I was) but don't worry about that. As you break those strings of the tangled web, the web falls apart and it's a very liberating feeling! Just endevour to get out from under the weight of any lies you may have told.
Beyond that, you might try to improve yourself, educate yourself (read, classes), treat yourself right (eat right and exercise) and better yourself as a person. Often times an individual has been mistreated by another person with problems and they get the notion that they don't deserve love, affection, or good things in their life. Every person deserves to share in the bounty that living affords us. You can close your eyes and imagine yourself already in that happy place and imagine... what kind of person are you then? How does she (you) behave there? What are your days like? Is she honest and reliable? Kind? Hard-working? Humble? Caring? Interesting (with hobbies and interests)? Adventurous (has adventures and exitement in her life)?
Try to be the kind of person you like to be with...24/7. When you are the kind of person most people want to be friends with, so will she (probably). Have faith that you can do it, don't stop wanting to be in that happy, sunny place in your imagination. I will see you there.
Good luck,
wayne

Answer 3

Very good - one of the more creative trolls I've seen.

I suggest you turn to hard drugs, fast easy sex, and peanut butter sandwiches. Not all at once, of course - that would be crazy.

Answer 4

your options are very narrow. convince her that you are hooking because that's the only thing you know you are not doing it for pleasure. ask her to share some time with you in conversation and explain that you are a victim of circumstances

Answer 5

Time to sleep is time to sleep. You lack focus because you have not been sleeping. Just sleep enough and when you wake up, you shall be able to ask real questions!

Answer 6

With all you have to offer I can't imagine why she would hate you. I'm sure if you stalk her long enough she'll come around.

Answer 7

well i think she hates you because u make fun of her and make stuff up of her. i think that you need help in showing your emotions or else you are in a really bad path.

Answer 8

there are two things wrong with this situation:
1) youre in love with a islam
2)youre being gay or youre telling yourself you are which you know very well youre not.

Answer 9

Rehab.

Answer 10

You need help, seek it before you get more insane.